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Published: 2012-11-06 15:19:08 +0000 UTC; Views: 1035; Favourites: 31; Downloads: 915
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Alright, alright, before everyone flames me, let me explain myself.I am bisexual, leaning more towards girls, and I am proud of the fact that I am but I do not go and shove it in everyone's faces like I'm the queen bee or anything. i keep it to myself, talking about it with a few close personal friends but that is it. I do not tell everyone I meet that I am. If someone asks, I don't lie, I tell them. But I do not show it off. In fact, I really hate people who think just cause they're gay or bisexual, they're fucking special as shit.
If you've come out, great! Just don't get butthurt when the homophobes give you a hard time. If you go and rub it in their faces like some I know do, then what do you expect? Homophobes are pricks, yes, but if you go and shove your flamboyant homosexuality in their faces, they are going to bite. I am not saying you cannot hold hands with your partner in public or treat them like any other couple in a relationship, but you gotta be aware of people. Not everyone is accepting of it as you think they are and one day, that might cause something bad to happen.
Also, another thing relating to this... Don't come out on Facebook either! "Hurrdurr, I'm gay/bi, haters gunna hate, cuz Idgaf!" You sound like an attention-seeking whore. Seriously, you know you're only to get good messages of support from your friends so stop attention whoring, bitch.
Okay, I'm rambling now, it's 2am here and I'm fucked. But you get the picture. To sum up, don't shove your homosexaulity in people's faces like you're better then them and you might not get hated for it.
Feel free to leave comments, but any hatred and I'll just ignore you.
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so many people just need to fuck off.
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When I saw the thumbnail, I thought it said, "you're gay? I really don't love a freak." But then I zoomed in and I was like ooohhhhhhhh. I agree brw
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I mean btw, whoops
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Attention seeker for being out and proud? That's just spreading the stereotype that not straight = shameful. As you know, not being straight requires a coming out process, continually throughout one's life, so why is it such a bad thing to include it in one's facebook profile? What if they are trying to find potential dates? It's hard finding people who like the same gender. Heterosexuals are the real attention seekers because they're in all the movies and books, kissing in public, always discussion their attractions. But they have the nerve to call us attention seekers.
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Did you basically just call me for being homophobic? And us? I am one of you, y'know
Lol, some homosexuals are attentions seekers! Same with straight couples! I am just pissed off at the ones who milk the gay or bi card like it's something to be toyed with, to use to show off to your mates! It's not. Coming out is a private manner, don't do it on Facebook or any other social media, who knows who can see it and might be homophobic.
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Yes. Internalized homophobia. The idea that non straights should not be as out as straights are. It's great if you want to stick with a few people knowing your orientation, but for people to know and not shame your identity should not be a straight privilege--it should be a right. We should fight against heterosexism, and one way of doing that for some people is being out and proud. It's not "attention seeking", it's getting something that straights already have--being out.
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... Wow, seriously? I guess I'm homophobic against my girlfriend and gay best friend then 
Look, this stamp was an old one and me expressing my anger at a few people in my area who thought it was 'cool' to announce they're all bi over Facebook. Fighting against heterosexism sounds like you want all people to be gay. You're not for marriage equality, you're for homosexual-equality.
But seriously, you think I'm homophobic?
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Fighting against heterosexism/homophobia is fighting against the inferiority of non-straight orientations, not against heterosexuality itself. Internalized homophobia is self-hatred for one's orientation. Those with it may not actively hate their orientations but show their biases in other ways.
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You use ideological mumbo-jumbo to justify your obsession with being gay and your deep-seated resentment of straight people, and instead of doing anything to earn their respect, you fight homohpbia by bullying other gay people into making the same lifestyle choices as you did, as though ALL straight people are out and proud in ways that ALL gay people must live up to at all times.
And you wonder why people hate you.
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Because everybody loves to block me:
I know how you feel, but it's no excuse to turn to other gay people and force your standards and expectations on them for not liking other gay people or not "Fighting the system" enough. That's what caused this mess in the first place, when other people don't live up to the same standards.
I'm completely sick of being seen as a bigot for not meetingΒ other people's standards, it doesn't matter if those people are gay or straight, or trans or anything. I'm sick of lecturing on why I'm an internalized homohpbe or sexist or transphobe or whatever, because I don't tow the line of political correctness. I'm sick of progressive issues being dominated by the same psychopathic control freaks domineering the whole conversation, and driving people away, towards the RIGHT WING. It's not helping anybody.
And what happens when somebody says "I hate gay people!" and claims its for the same sort of reasons? You flip out. Because of their "priveledge" they have no right to say about you what you will gladly say about them.
doesn't have to do what you do, it's not your life, and it's not your decision. And blocking me doesn't make you the winner.
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a;ksljd;jf who knew someone would reply to a comment i made 3 years ago
anyway,Β vinngece.deviantart.com/art/Juβ¦
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Um, yup, right. I am not a homophobe.Β
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Man, I can't express how grateful I am to come by someone who sees it my way...
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The text goes by so quickly, I thought it's said "You're a guy? I really don't fuck".
I don't get it why homosexuals myself should feel that they should be like "HEY GUISE MY NAME IS GAY" (okay, no, but you get my point). Yes, it forms as a part of your identity and it is important, but it shouldn't take over all your other traits and factors. (such as being creative, charitable, a good dancer etc.)
It already puts you in another small box, which people can use to their advantage to bully you. You never gave them a chance to know who you actually are.
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I agree with the stamp as much as I know I'm pretty sure that I am an asexual but I don't really think that I'm really special I'm just thought about discovering my own sexuality and people developing what they're sexuality is not that their choice of it is what they're born with it so I do agree with the stamp so I don't shove it up on everyone's faces but I try to figure it out on my own what my sexuality is and so do people when they're starting at the age experience but I don't really THINK that I'm special I'm just trying to figure it out my own
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This stamp is very hard to read and is much too fast.
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Thank you for the comment but I personally think it's fine
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Just thought I'd let you know that, personally, I think it's nearly illegible.
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So, can you guess who this kinda made me think of?
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No one in particular, but rather a few people that I know who do this.
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Sometimes dan 
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Yeah, he always does it and I'm just like, "-.-' No one cares "
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Haha yeah
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I'm gay myself, but I will NEVER feel special about it. Because after all, there like billions more homosexuals than just me. Gays who thinks they're special are mostly attention whores OR that they're lying about being gay just to show off, which I personally find sick. :I
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Agreed. I know people who do that.
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I've really only met one homosexual who didn't go around wearing women's clothing, and didn't throw around their sexuality around.
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I know two, personally, and they both treat it like a fashion label -.-'
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haha, oh god.
Wearing women's clothing, and really tight jeans is going too far. Or at least what one homosexual tells me.
oh well, can't win 'em all.
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I don't find that weird, as I wear guy shirts, but when they point out every hot dude or talk how they're gay every two seconds, that pisses me off.
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I never shove my sexuality in other people's faces.
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I don't see the point of doing so.
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