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I can relate. I'm in a similar situation, just he's still with her, and refuses to make a decision between the two of us. It doesn't stop me feeling so guilty at how much i want him to choose me instead.
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I so understand how you feel. I was in the same situation and it got real nasty, real fast. I know you never meant to hurt her, you can't help how you feel. Either she'll get over it, or she'll leave you two alone. Either way, its probably for the best. It still sucks though.
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You keep her friendship and are aware of how what you do affects her without it stopping you and your boyfriend.
If you're around her, then don't be affectionate with him, it hurts her. If you're doing stuff online, comment less. Make her realize that you still care about her as a friend even if she's not your closest friend.
My boyfriend and I had a phase where we could see each other once every month or so for a few hours around others. It happened that one of our friends had just broken up with his ex at that point. So we stopped being overly cuddly despite only being able to see each other then if he was around.
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wow this seriously could of been my writing just last week .....scary......
i know exactly how you feel ST
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Well, it's good to know that I'm not alone...^^'
Thank you ~
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well, you're doing the best you can do! most girls would be rude and nasty to the ex gf, but you're being the better person.
I am actually pretty proud. things will work themselves out, though. you can't concern yourself with other peoples' problems too much, or you'll lose sight of your own life and happiness.
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I hope they will...and thank you
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its so good to see a peacekeeper, not a warmaker...youre trying your best, ST, dont give up, if your friend and bf are worth it.
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Yeah, some people can hate too easily...and thank you
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I think this is a better answer than I ever could have given!
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Oh, ST, I know the feeling. I really do. I was in the same situation. Luckily, that friend forgave me. Be careful, though, he may be a serial-break-up-with-girls-for-their-best-friends kinda guy.. The guy I was in this situation with was like this.
But, if you love him, and he loves you, [genuinely and truly loves you] he'll stay with you, and I hope you get your friend back, too.
All you can do is wait for fate and such to sort things out..
In any note, 
-Jacki<3
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I wasn't really close friends with her, ever...and we've had a few problems in the past, which might be part of it...though I still care about her as a friend.
But anyway...
Thank you a lot
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No problem at all. I'm always here if you need to talk
Why don't you tell me a little bit about it?
So, what I gather is, he broke up with her for you, because you two fell in love, correct? And you didn't want to hurt her..?
Did she love him?
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don't worry too much about her.
she's an ex for certain reasons.
as long as you're happy with who you're with,
then that's all you need.
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Your signature made me so happy.
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