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Synge-Zinc In reply to AkaiKitsuneKegawa [2011-01-23 06:15:18 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, it's better. I haven't talked to him about it, but we made up, and are okay now
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AkaiKitsuneKegawa In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-23 15:49:06 +0000 UTC]
Ah, well that's a start. That's good, but you guys really should have a talk.
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GodisKanin [2011-01-20 13:15:21 +0000 UTC]
:c <3
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Krazoa-Kescime [2011-01-20 13:12:17 +0000 UTC]
I'm glad you're not bottling up ^.^ I'm also happy you did what I did xD wrote it all by hand ^.^
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MunchyPaws [2011-01-20 03:14:56 +0000 UTC]
Thanks..
It's sorta getting better..
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MunchyPaws In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 03:15:50 +0000 UTC]
You got friends, dear. Just talk whenever you want someone to comfort ya.
That's the reason why we have them.
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MunchyPaws [2011-01-20 03:17:52 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, but the problem is, I have a huge problem with trust.. Only a few people I know out of all of my friends I really truly trust, but I barely ever see them, they're all in different grades
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MunchyPaws In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 03:21:23 +0000 UTC]
Trust's been one of the few things that's been becoming more of a thing I look into many of the 'friends' I've known for years. As long as you got those loyal to you, then it's all worth it.
We live in times where we can easily reach somebody as simple as a cell phone.
Donno personally of your life or anything, but we have that. And... people here on dA as well.
Just because you don't see them doesn't you couldn't communicate through the internet (even though it isn't the same way, but it's better than nothing).
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MunchyPaws [2011-01-20 03:23:22 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, true...
There's a couple people I trust on my sites, but, they haven't stayed with me...
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MunchyPaws In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 03:24:37 +0000 UTC]
Sorry to hear that, dear.
But yeah, try to Facebook, email, whatever to your friends. Be worth it once you do, you'll see : )
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MunchyPaws [2011-01-20 03:27:52 +0000 UTC]
I'm talking to him on facebook now..
But what's troubling him is.. Well he;s going to a different school after this one, and I might or might not go with him.
Me and him were never good with these kind of relationships, we're used to seeing eachother everyday. But.. Only 10 minutes, as he's in a different grade, and we only meet up in the halls between classes..
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MunchyPaws In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 03:32:38 +0000 UTC]
Well, from there, dear, that's all the matter of opinion.
People in a relationship tend to love the physical aspect of being close to somebody...
But, in my opinion, as long as you're there to communicate with that person, regardless of how you do it, then it's better than having no sort of connection.
If anything in a relationship matters, is just communicating with them alone is the truth behind it.
... Sorry if it sounded irrelevant. Honestly, when I re-read your reply, I can't quite figure out HOW I ended up typing this xD
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MunchyPaws [2011-01-20 03:36:54 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, but, he just is one that can't handle being apart for too long.. It kills him inside
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MunchyPaws In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 03:40:46 +0000 UTC]
I understand that, but...
... All I can say is, you guys just gotta figure out how to at least keep in touch. Phone, txting, whatever. Whatever can keep you guys to at least accompany you two.
There's this girl I like: never met her in real life, and by words she's done so much in comforting me.
When I don't hear from her for even a day or two, it turns my whole mood sour bit-by-bit until she comes back.
It isn't only your presence that makes a relationship great, but also communication (the power behind it all).
You guys could always find a way to meeting up every once in a while perhaps?
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MunchyPaws [2011-01-20 03:44:52 +0000 UTC]
Thanks, that's pretty good advice... I'll be sure to remember that for later.
And yeah, I've had that, too... Online relationships, loves, likes...
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MillieJane [2011-01-20 02:43:54 +0000 UTC]
This deals with a boy doesn't it?
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MillieJane In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 03:12:43 +0000 UTC]
Even though I'm a complete stranger, you probably already know that you shouldn't even think that you might be too fat, or thin, or you're not pretty enough. Thoughts and words like that put you down and once your self-esteem goes down it takes a long time to get it back up. Whatever the problem is, it can probably be resolved if you guys just talk about it and try and sort it out. Try and think from his side of view and what he might be thinking. If it's a fight about something unfair, don't give up on trying to get your point across if it's right.
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MillieJane [2011-01-20 03:16:45 +0000 UTC]
I try talking to him, but it hurts him to see me like this. I'm scared that if I tell him too much, that he'd not want to be with me..
I've had many breakups because of this.. I've told hm I stopped all of this, he believes me, but I only did it for him, so he wouldn't worry about me..
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MillieJane In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 22:35:09 +0000 UTC]
But putting yourself down or even thinking that something is wrong with you isn't gonna help. It'll do more damage than help.
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MillieJane [2011-01-20 23:38:42 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, I know...
But everytime I try to tell him... I just break down into tears
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MillieJane In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-21 02:20:39 +0000 UTC]
I know how it feels to not be able to control that.. Try practing what you're going to say, you'd be surprised, it might help.
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Synge-Zinc In reply to MillieJane [2011-01-21 02:21:41 +0000 UTC]
I practice daily, all night, but when my chance comes..
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MillieJane In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-21 22:48:45 +0000 UTC]
Oh.. I'm sorry ): I not exactly the best advice giver....
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firepower21 [2011-01-20 02:19:14 +0000 UTC]
Awww! What happened???
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firepower21 In reply to Synge-Zinc [2011-01-20 02:45:17 +0000 UTC]
Awww! I just wanna give em a hug!
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wolfdog127 [2011-01-20 02:18:17 +0000 UTC]
aww poor guy
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blink182lives [2011-01-20 02:15:34 +0000 UTC]
Whoa...what happened...?
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