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"If you wouldn't date a trans person regardless of reason, you are a transphobic and need to get over you're dating prejudices qwq"
Ugggghhhh noooooo
Not wanting to date a trans person is NOT inherently transphobic. Why do I need to say this, some of you may think, this never happens. Go to my last stamp, I was literally call transphobic for only being attracted to cis men.
So here's a list of both transphobic and not-transphobic reasons to not date a trans person (from both a cis and trans perspective, be awhile, as I'm trans)
Transphobic reasons:
Believing they will always be male/female and they will in no way be the gender they think they are
Being gay/straight and believing you have to be bi in order to date a trans person
Thinking that trans lesbians/gay trans men are trying to turn cis lesbians/cis gay men straight because of their biological sex
Thinking straight trans women/straight trans men are trying to turn straight men/straight women gay because of their biological sex
Because no true lesbian/gay man would date a trans woman/trans man since all trans lesbians are "heterosexual males" and gay trans men are "heterosexual females" choosing to be gay
Because no trans woman looks like a woman and you can ALWAYS tell that they are truely a man (vise versa for trans men)
Because trans people only exist to "trap" you, and make you gay
No matter what a trans person does, a trans woman will always have a penis and trans men will always have a v and uterus NO MATTER WHAT
Belieiving they support rape because the trans person says they are gay (hint, they are)
Not-Transphobic reasons:
Being traumatised by someone of the same-biological sex of the trans person, and being completely repulsed by the idea of their partnering being the sex at any point (they can't control this)
Fearing that in a relationship that yours and your partner's dysphoria may vary, leading you to be very dysphoria by something they do that doesn't make them dysphoric
Thinking that they couldn't give the best support to the trans person and their dysphoria
Sex being important to their relationship (this usually only goes for pre-op/non-op men for bottom surgery)
Those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.
Now, before people say "doesn't matter!!!! Transphobic no matter what!!!!", let me say this
HOW DOES SOMEONE NOT DATING SOMEONE ELSE AFFECT YOU, ESPECIALLY OVER THE INTERNET IN ANOTHER COUNTRY OR CONTINENT????
- Damion
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Here’s another potential reason:
you just don’t like them/aren’t interested.
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How can someone be traumatized AND repulsed by their lover ?? (other than abuse and ptsd and yada yada)
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Although I don't have any problem with befriending trans people, I personally don't have any kind of attraction towards them.
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this entire argument always came off as completely absurd to me because why would you want to date someone that wasn't sexually interested in you?
and why are people so offended by the concept that there's people out there who aren't into them?
there's nearly 8 billion people in the world maybe the problem isn't with them but instead your hyperfocus on what you can't have :thinkingemoji:
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I can think of a reason that doesn't apply to just trans people. not dating someone because you're too far apart in age.
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and sometimes it's not that you wouldn't date trans people at all,but that a certain person just isn't attractive.
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Even though I'm bisexual, I wouldn't date a trans person. simply because I'm not attracted to trans people.
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i'm trans myself and wouldn't be able to date another trans guy like
i'm just not attracted to trans guys, plus the amount of 2d hand dysphoria would just be to much to handle.
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There's also the fact that dope people just aren't attracted to super features of the sex of the trans person.
I definatly feel attraction to trans women in general, but I find certain masculine features unattractive.
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