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Red-Pawsx In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-09 20:53:49 +0000 UTC]

First off, Kay.

You, were not there when it happened. You have no idea what has happened over the past few days.
also, i cannot show you proof because I removed everything that linked to her so I could be free from the pain she caused me.

However, I did not call my fans annoying, but if you were my fan, yeahh I would call you annoying.

I also, do care for my watchers, except the people, like you, take assumptions of what is happening, and side with the person who is making the most vents.

But here's what happened okay:

Lucy and I joked around alot about being married. Until the day she wasn't joking and I didn't know of that. Before I knew it she kept screaming at everyone that she was dating someone. After a while of her being very clingy towards me, I broke up with her.
After those days I tried to tell her how she could be happier by going outside and enjoying the day, like I do. But she did not take kindly to my advice and started saying how she hasn't eaten or slept for 2 days. I got tired of those lies because no 11 year old human can go without that without their parents noticing. After a while she kept annoying me and I got sick and tired of her behaviour. She also kept saying about 'how everybody hated her' and 'I have no friends' -wich is also an insult towards you ofcourse- I told her, that she did have friends, and she was lying. After that she kept whining about how horrible life is. And I told her that that is how life goes. After that a few things happened that I can't all tell or else this story would be too long. I made this vent in a fit of rage and you must understand the circumstances I was in. My behaviour is a result of her annoying me and whining about how horrible everything is.

Point of this: don't take her side before you know what's going on. Understood

-also I'd rather not be called 12, or not being believed I'm that age or higher, I act immature, but I assure you I can be as mature as can be if I want to, I just choose not to be-

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Kaymilton In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-09 21:02:08 +0000 UTC]

***you said it in the descrip- you know what nevermind***

Once again, I never said I am taking any sides. You are making a ridiculous assumption.

(I also would not call her my friend since we dubbed each other "Mother and daughter")

Hmm, okay, now I have two sides of the story.

(That makes everything a lot clearer)

One thing I don't understand: Why can't each side apologize and then just dont talk to each other? 

I don't want to write such a long comment again since it makes my hand cramp, so I probably did not address a few things, but whatever. 

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Red-Pawsx In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-09 21:35:30 +0000 UTC]

honestly, it isn't that easy to just apolagize to her.
When I did, she continued being very clingy towards me, and started becoming jealous of everything I did. The only option I had was to ignore her clingyness than to feed it.
Also, since you two are dubbed 'mother and daughter' without being biologically connected, it's safe to say you two are friends.
You have to understand and view these two viewpoints better, before saying anything.

Good riddance, Its 11 PM and I do not have time for this, this is why I left the chat with alot of people in it, to never have to explain what is actually happening.

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Kaymilton In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-09 22:09:10 +0000 UTC]

that is why you just say sorry and not talk to each other again. If you do not talk to each other again, then she wont be "clingy" 

Also Lucy says she had no clue she was being clingy. 

I just now knew the other viewpoint, and I kind of took an educated guess that if I took it calmly you would not talk about it.

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Red-Pawsx In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-09 22:45:47 +0000 UTC]

Can I ask Lucy's viewpoint.

I have to discuss this with my.. Squad.

Because I'm not an idiot, there may be points that she lied. She has done that before.

So tell me it

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Kaymilton In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-09 23:10:49 +0000 UTC]

Okay, since you asked. (Note: She told me small details, but enough to make a viewpoint)

So this is what I gathered 
-You were calling Lucy fucked up and horrible
the apparently you made up, but then it continued again
(quote from lucy) "apparently didn't know we where dating when she said yes apparently I didn't let her talk to other people and I stalked her???"
-she says you kept telling her to change
- she also says that she did not make vents about you ignoring her, but it was for something else (that something else is unknown to me)
- she says that she is just uncomfortable with the "ship jokes" that you made, not mad or upset about them
- she states that she had no clue she was acting clingy

anything else specifically you need to know? (I might have left out some points by mistake.. I am just really tired at the moment) I also left out the times where it was "calling me names" and then "we've made up" since it was repetitive 

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Shadey-Soupreme In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-10 11:05:55 +0000 UTC]

you have to understand people dont point out their own flaws in discussions like this ;0
just keep notice of that!

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Red-Pawsx In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-09 23:56:43 +0000 UTC]

If you're tired, take a rest. We can continue this tomorrow.

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Kaymilton In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-10 01:32:52 +0000 UTC]

Okay.

Let me know if you need to know anything or something happens. 

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Shadey-Soupreme In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-09 20:31:25 +0000 UTC]

im sorry but i have to step in here
both sides need improvemtn true but alot of us felt like lucy was guilt tripping red
sinds lucy doesnt allow red to make shipping jokes with us she felt super caged
*alot people get uncomfortable when discussed about their vents and what red did to lucy you are doing the same to her right now so thats being a little hippecrytical

 All the siding and non siding happenend in a skype chat that i assume you are not it if you are i rlly apologize for not knowing
siding is wrong and super rude.

lucy vented about red not responding because she was at dinner both sides can comfirm this and have apologized for this
red is to overeacting and agressive to some things and lucy takes things to hard so when red says ''im not going to talk to you for a while'' thats super understandable sinds talking to exes is awkard

Lucy does victimize herself but isnt aware of what that really means tbh when soemone i care deeply posts alot of vents in the same day i get a little tired of their problems
red is 12 and yes she does act immature but so did the other side of this she tried not talking to lucy but when someone posts continues vents about that it gets a lttle hard (hope you understannd)

alot of jokes have been made between them about dating and stuff so i would understand not seeing when it was meant seriously she didnt know until lucy posted a journal or something, lucy was kinda stalky and super clingy
she wanted to be in every chat and would get depressed and selfharm traits if red made jokes about being in a ship with me or making fusions with other so i can see how she would feel trapped

you have alot of points for defending lucy but both sides did wrong here
you cant call someone out on something when you werent there when everything went down
i hope you understand
(im not trying to be enemies here i just felt like i should state out some points and defend red here a bit)
(also terribly sorry for my bad english)

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Kaymilton In reply to Shadey-Soupreme [2016-04-09 21:12:02 +0000 UTC]

(thanks for stepping in. It really helps me get more information about the whole situation)
I honestly had no clue people get uncomfortable when talking about vents, one because I live under a rock, two because I never really talk to people about their vents.
I forgive you for you "bad english" and I completely understand stepping in like this. I try to do the same, but it is kind of hard when I lack information. 

(makes sense, but people who just saw this vent and saw lucy's vents could make the same assumption i made)


I can now understand the whole "not knowing they were dating" that makes sense. 

now that I know  most of the information, I think many people can agree with me that they should both just make up and either 
A) talk to each other again
or 
B) stop talking to each other 

Lucy has stated that she has a social disorder, so that might be the reason why all of the clinginess happened and such. 

(I'm not trying to be an enemy as well. I am also not the person to automatically latch the term "enemy" to anyone who tries to disprove what I am trying to say)

Probably did not reply about certain topics that you stated, but I just really do not want to get a hand cramp. 

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Shadey-Soupreme In reply to Kaymilton [2016-04-09 22:06:06 +0000 UTC]

im glad youre understanding and mature about this
and i understand not wanting a hand crap xD

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Red-Pawsx In reply to SiinnamonRoll [2016-04-09 18:41:58 +0000 UTC]

shh im not talking about everyOne

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SiinnamonRoll In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-09 19:19:33 +0000 UTC]

okie sis ;o;

i hope you feel better soon!! ;o;

//hugs real tight

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Red-Pawsx In reply to TerouFluffy [2016-04-09 15:20:31 +0000 UTC]

me and lucy were fighting because she whines alot and victimizes herself and then evryone took her side and like 2/3rd of the people tke her side

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TerouFluffy In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-10 12:06:43 +0000 UTC]

oh i know that feel :/ 

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Red-Pawsx In reply to TerouFluffy [2016-04-10 13:02:29 +0000 UTC]

mmm ;/

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Zharleste In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-09 20:04:57 +0000 UTC]

Try to use an another example except whining and stuff Red, also you told me to go to hell, which is not nice. Please have some proper manners :/

Also why did you break up with her?

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Red-Pawsx In reply to Zharleste [2016-04-09 20:43:05 +0000 UTC]

that. Bubbly. Was called a joke
I also broke up with her because she was stalking me everywhere I went and was way too clingy for my liking.
I'd like you to take her back
like
take her
back
nOW

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Zharleste In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-10 05:59:47 +0000 UTC]

Alright but first, why would you say to your bae that she was f***ing it up? Like your OWN bae, or best friend.

Sorry to say that, but I find it rude to say bad things to their OWN bff.

Literally, but anyways I'll try to get in touch with her and talk about the situation ^w^

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Red-Pawsx In reply to Zharleste [2016-04-10 13:02:17 +0000 UTC]

Oh boy oh goodie you shouldve been there
then you'll understand why
And somebody who would be my bff would like
laugh and be like k
so
takE HER FucKER

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Red-Pawsx In reply to Red-Pawsx [2016-04-09 20:55:55 +0000 UTC]

also, you where not there. You do not know what happened
what she did was indeed
whining.

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