Comments: 34
Settiesama [2010-05-04 11:33:49 +0000 UTC]
My cutie boy. <3
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Nywaychan [2010-05-02 16:30:21 +0000 UTC]
Cuuuute :3
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Winterous [2010-05-02 02:44:42 +0000 UTC]
3 Transvestites.
Well, most of them.
Some of them, at least.
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Winterous In reply to Katyenka-Svetlana [2010-05-02 15:45:58 +0000 UTC]
"her femboi Kitti~ <3"
[link]
Yes, it is.
Unless of course you mean Hermaphrodite.
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Katyenka-Svetlana In reply to Winterous [2010-05-03 12:39:01 +0000 UTC]
FEMININE
BOY
Aka a TRAP, as in a boy that is mistaken for a girl, or a girl that is mistaken for a boy. Though in this case it's the first.
*knocks on your head* |3
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Katyenka-Svetlana In reply to Winterous [2010-05-04 00:54:52 +0000 UTC]
Since when are trans the only "guys" that wear girly clothes? x'D
Someone needs to look up "visual kei" j-rock ;D
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Settiesama In reply to Winterous [2010-05-04 11:32:01 +0000 UTC]
Yes, but Kitti does not wear womens clothing because of 'habit or compulsion', he wears them because he can, wants to and likes them. Or because he's been forced to. This does not make him a transvestite. He is a feminine boy, who is mistaken as a girl, and wears females clothes either by want or force.
[link] <-- Femboi
[link] <-- Transvestite
The difference is that a transvestite thinks they ARE a woman, or makes it more obvious that they try to be a woman. Fake breasts, voice, whatever else.
Thank you, come again~
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Winterous In reply to Settiesama [2010-05-04 13:10:53 +0000 UTC]
[link]
"A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex"
He wears those clothes BY CHOICE, as you said.
So he sometimes wears women's clothes.
Read 'usage notes' in the definition page.
"Transvestite should not be confused with transgender or transsexual"
Transsexual is the one that is gender-confused, transvestite (emphasis on VEST) is simply someone who cross-dresses.
Next time, read the definition.
Thank you, come again~
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Settiesama In reply to Winterous [2010-05-04 15:41:59 +0000 UTC]
Eh.
What does it matter what my character is anyways? He is a femboi, that is what I call him, it is what he is known as and what he goes by. Why are you so pushy about marking him as a transvestite? Why can't you just drop it after being told he's a "femboi"?
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Settiesama In reply to Winterous [2010-05-05 09:26:41 +0000 UTC]
Apologize, I don't enjoy people telling me that my character is one thing, when he is something else.
In my mind, the definition of Transvestite is a guy that wears too much make up, and tries tooo hard to BE a female. Drag Queens and the like for example.
My Kitti is clearly not like that. It's like saying masculine gays are like feminine gays. Yes, they're both gay but there is a difference.
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Winterous In reply to Settiesama [2010-05-05 10:33:49 +0000 UTC]
I'm assuming you meant to say 'I apologise', because there is simply no reason for you to be demanding I do so.
And what's I'm saying is that that simply isn't the definition of a Transvestite, and many would snap at you for saying so.
Just because they dress like women (and look like freaks, in many cases), doesn't mean they WANT to be a woman, they just enjoy it, for whatever reason (far too varied to list, like most psychological characteristics).
Drag Queens are a sub-category of Transvestites, probably a term that refers specifically to those who wear a lot of make-up, and look like prostitutes.
Normal Transvestites (ie: those who aren't abnormal in some other way as well) have a completely normal sense of gender identity, and sexuality, they just like wearing women's clothing.
I wasn't suggesting your character was like that at all, I was merely stating that he is, by very definition and intention of the term, a Transvestite.
Your interpretation of the term is wrong, and in a way which could be offensive to some people, you should try and consciously change it
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Settiesama In reply to Winterous [2010-05-05 16:24:02 +0000 UTC]
I didn't mean it as a demand from you. It was, indeed, a typo on my part. I meant 'Apologies'. I'm a bit more then a little sleep deprived since my 7 month old niece, and her mother, are staying with me.
Again, though, what would it matter what he is. If you don't like the femoboi characters (I do refuse to call him a transvestite since he is a femboi), why both commenting saying that you dislike them and that they have to be your definition?
I do realise that my views on the word are incorrect, and I do not go out of my way to offend someone and demand they change to suit how I view them. I simply state that is what I see transvestites as, and it's not going to change. I 'catagorize' people, if you will, by what they really are, or how they act. Drag Queens, Homosexuals, fembois, tomboys, straights, whatever.
And, no, I'm not going to change how I am just because one person has their panties in a bunch over it. ;3
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Moniquekat [2010-05-01 22:41:55 +0000 UTC]
Ohh, he's so cute~~ You must be the ultimate master of the ways of cute. Please teach me ;u; *bows*
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popstck [2010-05-01 21:29:08 +0000 UTC]
ffff silly femboy :U it makes it feel weird for me to call him cute :\____/
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AntiImage [2010-05-01 21:23:47 +0000 UTC]
wonderful coloring :3
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