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JuacoProductionsArts — Ugh... What's the use of feeling bad of yourself?
Published: 2017-08-06 13:59:11 +0000 UTC; Views: 10238; Favourites: 9; Downloads: 0
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Not much about me. Actually, this situation is carrying over to some of my friends who are making me worried as well, and I want their drama to just be cut out. It's getting annoying already to see Every Single Day stuff like "I feel like a dud!", "My art is worthless", "I'm deactivating, because...", "Nobody wants to be friends with me", blah, blah, BLAH!Seriously. Cut that drama out and stop thinking negatively. I can't be one of the few ones who has to help you make you feel better from that, you know. Just so you know, you may remember I had a few similar instances where that kind of stuff happened and I was feeling like I was gonna leave, because of hurting my feelings for either them comparing me to a Spongebob character, or a misunderstanding of what someone wanted me to do and ending up with myself thinking it wrong and messing it up, but I decided to stay and not be thinking about that, as well as changing my behaviour to one that could work better with them, as well as apologizing and making amends.
Tell me. What's the use of feeling blue about yourself for wanting to leave or think your drawing style isn't worth? It doesn't matter that thing at all. Everyone has their own drawing styles tells how you can express and be yourself, and I want them to give its use for as much as they desire. Remember that pride flag thing you can have in your profile too.
Thinking bad about yourself or a negative experience with your friends happening and wanting to leave/deactivate because of that is NOT a help for your troubles. You gotta go tell your friends about the problem and see if they can do something about that. Please, understand.
I'm tagging:
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Okay. Sorry about that, but I was feeling a little stressed when wanting to help some of my close friends (mainly those who I tagged), which led me to write this journal you see here. It's feeling like an everyday routine too. You see someone complaining about themselves because of some things going wrong for them and you want to help them overcome that.
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I am going to finish my sentence! We all need to stop ✋ the negative vibe and attitude on DeviantArt! Everyone should try their best to positive and friendly to each other. We need to end the negative vibe and drama. All of us should work with together!😃👍🏿
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it's not easy to help somebody who always feels like they want to quit. I don't see the point in quitting, personally. If someone really feels like their work is not enough, quitting will only prove that. I always thought it was a better idea to take a deep breath, and look into why the art being made isn't satisfying myself. I've been through this before, not just with helping people going through it, but for my first two years, i really felt like I would never get as good as the more well known artists. I've had to learn everything I know by self teaching, since I can't afford going to an art school, and my GPA isn't high enough for me to transfer to a better college with actual art classes.
I say just keep going. you won't always feel like progress is being made, but when you find and iron out the little things that make your art less satisfying as you go, you will get better at it! I'm no miracle worker, but that's what I've learned.
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Everybody goes through that, but as long as it doesn't take full control, one can cast it aside.
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I understand the same situation, I know those feelings all too well.
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I feel like that sometimes, too. Not bad about myself, but making it a routine to help people that complain about how worthless they feel and try to make them see that they're special individuals and that they should not worry about others being better than them. I do want to help those that feel bad so that they can find the optimism in them, but it becomes stressful when negativity constantly keeps popping up. Seems like you can't help them all.
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I know your feelings, Jacob. I had countless experiences too but no more.
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yo tambien intento calmarlos, pero no ayudan, igual yo tengo problemas personales, pero prefiero decirlo en privado
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Amen. Artists deactivating their accounts always feels like the respective artist killing themselves, because it's all such a waste to do so! Just because they've got problems doesn't mean they have to throw their good art out.
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Sometimes its hard for people to talk about their feelings
As such venting how they feel is the only way they can get rid of some of the stress :T
its mostly natural for people who feel like shit 24/7
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Yeah, I like watching certain artists but it's grating seeing them all sad and stuff that I just ignore it. Venting out your frustrations isn't doing anything. Me, I just move on and continue doing what I love. Simple as that.
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Yeah, I was a little annoyed by this when BlingBlingBowser83 kept flip-flopping between staying and leaving. He was a fun guy, but sometimes he just can't make up his mind.
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well your arts is not worthless to me not at all i'm your friend i'm everything for you
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Ik I'm but it's stressful when a certain person tikimille tells me to put shit on mature content I'm sorry for stressing u
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People are just carrying that misconception that all inflation art is pornographic, just ignore them and only put the content filter on what YOU feel isn't safe.
i do the same most of the time.
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I've had friends that did that kind of thing.
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If it makes you feel better, I believe TheSapphireMiner is feeling better.
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