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~~~~~~~My mom just called and told me my mémé (grandmother) passed away.. I am heartbroken I didn't get to say goodbye properly and even more hurt I wont get the chance to. She informed me there would be no funeral or wake.. So I can not come to Maine and pay my respects to her as I hoped I would be able to when this time came. (Thanks to my so called 'Aunt', she decided there would be no funeral or wake for her.. I have never felt such disrespect towards a family member.)
I love you mémé.. You lived a long, wonderful life. I've missed you everyday and I will never stop missing you. But we all knew this day would come, and I knew you had to leave us eventually. You were always a fighter, Mémé, and you taught all of us to be strong. I'm glad my last visit with you was at least a good one.. My last memory with you was getting to put a smile on your beautiful face. I'll cherish that
Rest in peace my Mémé; Say hi to Pépé for me
Sweet dreams.
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I'm really sorry for your loss. My aunt died in late 2017 and I didn't get to say goodbye either 
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I'm so sorry for your loss. :c What a terrible disrespect by your aunt. Would you be able to round up your like minded family members and have your own celebration of life for her?
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If we do its not until May. Thats when my Vacation is scheduled.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. Many prayers for you and your family. Yes, may she rest in peace forever and ever~
Your Aunt's a greedy dick by the way from what I've been reading in the comments.
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1st rest in Peace
2nd im sorry for your lost i know how that feel i too lost my gran pa
3rd and i feel your anger too
4th may you remember the smiles and joy you share with her
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Panda I-I’m so sorry. I wish you the best and give your grandmother my prayers.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel, though
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I feel Ya, I lost my grandfather last year and they didn't let me go to the funeral because I had class
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
I lost my Baba last year in April and it was a heartbreaking moment for me.
I rode a bus for 42 hours to go to her funeral and 42 hours back as well.
I miss her so much and i think about her all the time.
Your not alone hon *hugs* I will keep you and your family in my prayers tonight.
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At least you had a funeral for him.. my demon of an aunt wont pay for one so she straight up decided no funeral, no wake.
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That's total BS!!!
My god what is she thinking!?
and why would she get to decide that? shouldn't the WHOLE family have a say about what happenes?
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She's the first born and my mémé was the last living in her own family. So her first born kid had legal authority.. no matter how selfish
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I'm sorry for your loss . . . I hope your mémé is resting in peace now . . .
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Oh that's very sad ;-;
I lost my grandpa in July from cancer and I didn't get to say goodbye either
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you deserved to say your respects and properly say goodbye.
i hope your grandparents somehow see this in heaven.
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I'm so sorry about your grandmother Panda 3: I wish you the best and if you ever wish to vent or talk feel free to send me a note.
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You have every right to be upset with your aunt, that is totally disrespectful and an obvious disregard of you and the rest of your family's feelings and wishes.
Stay strong.
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It really was
Just proves all she cares about is the money. She has the most money in the family and she cant even give her own mother a funeral.
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Yeah, it's so sad how everything always comes down to money like that. Before my grandpa died, we were struggling to pay his medical bills and his wealthy brother all but refused to help out.
So, I get it. People who care more about money than their own family are down right disgusting. I'm sorry you guys have to deal with someone like that.
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I understand your grief, I went through something similar with my Grandpa, I never got to say goodbye to him, there was a funeral but it was all the way in Washington and my dad was the only one to go, I felt so sad and heartbroken for such a very long time, and I still do even though it has nearly been three years, I do have to say that you must let yourself grieve, don't try to just stop, even if people say she wouldn't have wanted you to do that, you have to ride out the emotions, you'll always miss her, without a doubt, I bet she was an amazing person, may she rest in peace.
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That was very dumb of your aunt. Always pay respect to any family member who just passed away. Why would she wanna do that anyway?
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She said it was what my Mémé asked for, was to just be buried by her late husband.. but she said that on meds so it was the mind of a sick and dying woman, not completely conscious.
The entire family wanted a funeral for her, but my aunt, being her first born child, had legal rights to decide whether to have a funeral or not.. and she chose not to.
She's been bouncing religions, detaching herself from the family because of it, went from Christian to Jewish to Jehova.. basically no one takes her seriously anymore. She only came around when she needed help..
I literally only think she didnt do it to save money. She's selfish and I'm honestly ashamed to call her my aunt.
No funeral means I dont get to apply for funeral leave at work and I dont get time off to fly home and pay my respects.. so i dont get to say goodbye.
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She should've chosen to have a funeral instead of being selfish and cruel.
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