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MirmusMaximus [2012-01-28 17:19:33 +0000 UTC]
I know the EXACT feeling!
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theOTHERmssmith [2011-08-24 11:47:15 +0000 UTC]
I feel like this... a lot. .___.
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AnnabelleRoxayne [2009-12-18 18:12:18 +0000 UTC]
I wish my best friend were the ST, but I know she isn't.
Just, posting this shows that you're a very good friend, ST ^^
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ClamShellHeart [2009-10-18 00:26:20 +0000 UTC]
this is a wonderful secret
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Jeck105 [2009-10-12 15:13:17 +0000 UTC]
I hope my best friend feels that way because she's been keeping me going through some of the shittiest moments of my life. I love her dearly.
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andheart01 [2009-10-11 00:23:34 +0000 UTC]
i have the same problem
but sometimes i just feel like a horrible friend to her because other people take me away from her. so the only chance i get to talk to her is on the phone now and days.
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crimsonobsidianrose [2009-10-10 16:31:45 +0000 UTC]
You sound like an amazing friend. Just the fact that you care enough to want to find your friend someone who can understand her better, it means that you'd do anything for her, as long as she will be helped. You don't realize it, but she knows that she's lucky to have you around <3
Just keep being there for her, and that is enough.
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guumijuice [2009-10-10 06:02:51 +0000 UTC]
this hits so close to home...
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JackzRagdoll13 [2009-10-09 21:12:53 +0000 UTC]
I feel like my friend Laura wrote this about she and I. Seriously. That is our relationship to a T. Its nice to see other friends as close as us... they're the best kind of friends a person can have, the ones who say things and mean them. <3
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GreenFaerie13 [2009-10-09 20:02:22 +0000 UTC]
no!
all that matters in a friendship is love and trust. if you love her and you listen to her and you keep the things she says to you to yourself, you're set.
you don't have to understand a person to love them.
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HiddenAmaranth [2009-10-09 20:01:46 +0000 UTC]
Sounds like what I go through with my girlfriend.
:]
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ShadowRittach [2009-10-09 18:08:12 +0000 UTC]
Don't feel bad because you don't have it as hard as her, she wouldn't want you to and she definitely would not wish a life like hers on you.
Besides, if people with crappy lives only associated with other similar people, they would always be depressed and stewing. And if 'normal' people only hung out with other 'normal' people, they wouldn't know the depth to which other people have problems. It's a give and take and it evens out.
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InvaderSymz [2009-10-09 16:59:49 +0000 UTC]
Uwww! My best friend is JUST like this, and it reallly makes me sad! She feels like she can't come to me with her problems because she feels like since my home sucks, she has no right to complain! Its awful! She'll beat herself up if she complains only slightly and I do wish she wouldn't. Take it from me ST: Don't worry about this! You have a great friendship and you're allowed to talk to her about anything!
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Travis-Person [2009-10-09 16:00:58 +0000 UTC]
Friends don't worry about each other's lifestyle.
Just each other's lives and well being.
A good solid friendship will last no matter what.
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MisfitxSky [2009-10-09 15:55:43 +0000 UTC]
Take it from me;; Just being there is enough. I come from a really bad home situation. My parents would argue non-stop and my brother had anger issues, and on multiple occasions would choke me. I would call my best friend crying. She would say nothing, just let me cry. And then we'd get together and she's hug me. That was always more than enough.
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xAngelicBeastx [2009-10-09 12:56:44 +0000 UTC]
don't feel guilty for having a 'normal' life. I bet you make a BIG difference though because she probably couldn't ask for a better friend to support her.
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firedance99 [2009-10-09 12:42:57 +0000 UTC]
Maybe she doesn't need you to understand, it's enough that you listen and try to understand. Besides, someone who hasn't been what she's been through may be able to offer more support (even without knowing it) because they haven't had to deal with teh same things.
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