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ChronoKatieFashion In reply to MellissaLynn [2016-03-05 06:49:58 +0000 UTC]

I am feeling okay about it. I like the pose, but I worry I was just forcing it. Like just trying to be extra cute to feel girly. :/

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ChronoKatieFashion In reply to hardgoods [2016-03-05 06:49:31 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much. I can at least say I look pretty. 

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hardgoods In reply to ChronoKatieFashion [2016-03-05 07:18:32 +0000 UTC]

Yes you can- and more. Just keep gaining confidence to show yourself (as you feel most comfortable) and you will be fine.

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ChronoKatieFashion In reply to hardgoods [2016-03-07 19:03:41 +0000 UTC]

I hope I don't find that confidence is all I needed in the end. 

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hardgoods In reply to ChronoKatieFashion [2016-03-07 19:13:51 +0000 UTC]

Confidence works wonders and goes a long, long way. What else is it you feel you need? What do you feel you are lacking? And what are you looking for?

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ChronoKatieFashion In reply to hardgoods [2016-03-08 01:55:09 +0000 UTC]

I feel like I need to finally be myself and flourish. At the same time this transition felt like something that I was doing for myself for once in my life, because I wanted it badly. I'm looking to find peace and serenity.

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hardgoods In reply to ChronoKatieFashion [2016-03-08 05:37:31 +0000 UTC]

Finding total peace and serenity is difficult (maybe impossible) for most of us to achieve due to the outside influences and pressures  from  business, society, friends, and even family (sometimes especially family because they are the closest). But some, or a lot of peace and serenity, is fine and/or great.
The same is true for totally being yourself. It seems there is always someone you anger, disappoint, or let down. But the biggest goal or objective is to be yourself, or as much as humanly be. Being someone you feel whole with and happy with. You have to strive for goals you set for yourself whether they are big or small. And they must be your goals not ones set by others.  If your goals, and accomplishing  them, make others happy that is fine too, and/or if you have the time, energy and focus to accomplish others' goals after you first achieve your own, or are well under way of achieving, then that is fine. This is the process of finding self, identity, worth, and happiness. And, in most cases, it is an ongoing process no matter what your age. But it is super important you do concentrate on this for yourself. Others may help with this (and very hopefully they do) but don't count on them. Trust yourself- but be open to good and meaningful guidance. Learn to love yourself- and others-- It is your journey-- make it the best it can be.       Hope maybe this helps a little--  There will sometimes be set backs -but keep moving forward and you will be fine.     All The Best--       

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