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Staying in an unhappy loveless relationship FoR tHe KiDs is about one the stupidest things you can do, and is harmful to the children as it teaches them that unhappy and loveless relationships are okay and normal. Parents splitting is not a black and white issue that many anti-divorce people make it out to be. It is very much a grey area. Yes, the kids will be affected by their parents splitting, but they will also be affected by them staying together.

The studies that say that kids are worse off if their parents split fail to look into what the relationship the parents when together was like, how they handled the divorce and custody and how they treated their kids in general. A kid whose parents, together or divorced, that are high-strung, abusive/neglectful, inconsistent etc is obviously gonna have more issues than a kid whose raised in a stable, loving, consistent environment. So when looking at these kids and see how they are, we need to also see how their home life was before and after the divorce, and in the case of parents staying together, if they actually loved each other and want to be together or if they're simply against divorce.

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Staying in an unhappy loveless relationship FoR tHe KiDs is about one the stupidest things you can do, and is harmful to the children as it teaches them that unhappy and loveless relationships are okay and normal. Parents splitting is not a black and white issue that many anti-divorce people make it out to be. It is very much a grey area. Yes, the kids will be affected by their parents splitting, but they will also be affected by them staying together.

The studies that say that kids are worse off if their parents split fail to look into what the relationship the parents when together was like, how they handled the divorce and custody and how they treated their kids in general. A kid whose parents, together or divorced, that are high-strung, abusive/neglectful, inconsistent etc is obviously gonna have more issues than a kid whose raised in a stable, loving, consistent environment. So when looking at these kids and see how they are, we need to also see how their home life was before and after the divorce, and in the case of parents staying together, if they actually loved each other and want to be together or if they're simply against divorce.

www.deviantart.com/azrael-legn…
www.deviantart.com/azrael-legn…