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avfc4me In reply to LiliWrites [2012-07-27 21:34:00 +0000 UTC]
Funny! I do, too...I just posted a pic of a bunch more.
I'll make you one. In my quest to make stuff for those of us with metal allergies, I found these great toggles made of nuts! Hey...as long as you don't eat 'em, right?
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CatsWire [2012-07-15 18:36:04 +0000 UTC]
Beautiful pieces and a great thought behind them.
My thoughts are with them, I hope they'll make it through this hard time as well as possible in such circumstances.
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Bullet-Magnet [2012-07-14 22:31:23 +0000 UTC]
Reminds me of this [link] combined with this [link]
I've found myself dwelling on that little chap these past few months. Not sure why. Is that weird?
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avfc4me In reply to Bullet-Magnet [2012-07-15 04:55:11 +0000 UTC]
I think it's kind. And he can use all the thoughts his way he can get. They're day 15 post-transplant, waiting for his body to start making white blood cells again...
and then they wait and see.
It's been a rough road; he's on IV and tube-through-the-nose feeds; that's not fun. And they shaved his head before he went in, but they couldn't risk a nick so it was just short. It grew back a bit while they were waiting and now, after the heavy chemo, it's falling out in clumps and he says it itches. But the sore mouth is the worst of it, I think. That and the endless boredom that is the hospital.
He's such a nice boy; he's eleven and dressed as Dobby for Halloween, for christssake...
Ugh. It kills me. As grownups, we want to jump up and say, 'pick me'. I'll do double, just...pass them on this. A busted arm? Sucks, but you get a cast afterwards. The chicken pox, oooh, that itch is pretty brutal, but. Ice cream and it's a week.
What LittleMonster had to go through? What CJ's dealing with?
yeah. People can take THAT God, and kindly shove it up their ass...
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Bullet-Magnet In reply to avfc4me [2012-07-16 21:12:49 +0000 UTC]
It grinds my gears when recoveries are attributed to miracles from god after all the work the doctors and nurses have done. Even the spontaneous and mysterious remissions. Because if one recovery is a blessing, then the kids who don't get better must be cursed. And since the same remissions happen in laboratory rats on a regular basis, the unavoidable conclusion is that god is taking the time to save rats (and ruin medical research in the process) while leaving human kids to die.
THERE'S your ass god.
People sometimes ask why I/we are angry with god. We're not though, are we? I'm no more angry at god than I am at Darth Vader or Sauron or Horus Lupercal. It's the believers who piss me off, because they just mindlessly say these things, and when you pay the slightest bit of attention, "the Lord cured my cancer" becomes one of the cruelest and most hateful things one can say.
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avfc4me In reply to Bullet-Magnet [2012-07-16 22:05:37 +0000 UTC]
I cannot tell you how much I agree with that.
People often ask me if I've thought about suing the hospital because of what happened to littleMonster. It was baffling, the first few times, and I'd try to explain: sepsis happens. Doctors don't cause sepsis, and if it hadn't been for the very creative approach of one particular doc, LittleMonster probably would've died.
And then what? What would've happened to the babies, and their families, of the monsters that came after us? If the doc wasn't on suspension he'd still be distracted over a lawsuit over something he really didn't have control over. Sepsis happens. Hospitals are a great place to pick up antibiotic resistant germs. I'm not angry with the hospital...I'm grateful. They hire some kick-ass physicians and we got lucky. We got life. Why would I turn around and deprive someone else of that...and over something as meaningless as money?
It's the same kind of thing, to my mind.
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Bullet-Magnet In reply to avfc4me [2012-07-16 23:47:32 +0000 UTC]
I'm sure you could think of a reason if you tried really hard.
For example, I recently became a carnivorous vegetarian. I've adopted vegetarian ethics and found that it greatly enhances my enjoyment of murdered animal flesh.
In essence, I became evil without changing at all.
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avfc4me In reply to Bullet-Magnet [2012-07-17 00:12:37 +0000 UTC]
That reminds me. I found a birthday present for you yesterday. Yeah, I know, but I wasn't where the present WAS before your birthday, so...late. But I was looking for something in particular and it took a while to find it.
I have to alter it an' then I have to mail it, so look for something in your mailbox in a couple weeks. I'll give you a heads up when i actually stick it in the mail. You'll laugh. It's not something to eat. Vegetarian or otherwise.
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Bullet-Magnet In reply to avfc4me [2012-07-17 01:57:22 +0000 UTC]
You spoil me rotten. Are all your friends as expensive as I am?
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