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iLikeTwoDraw [2019-08-27 01:49:42 +0000 UTC]
Autism can also make you socially awkward. I agree with you on the topic which people take mental illnesses as an excuse, and it's frankly sickening. My friend, Vlad, had to have weights attached to his shoes, because of his adhd. It's possible to push adhd back a little, but it's always present. I never knew this, until he told me. He told me to look at his feet, and they couldn't stop shaking. People who say things like "It's because I am mentally ill, and have adhd", make me angry.
I have genetic depression, and also anxiety. If your bf does too, I think your approach is OK. But I need medication for anxiety (when I have a panic attack), and I don't think it's a good idea to just let people feel how they do when they have a panic attack. Comfort is always needed, or the panic goes one for a while. Like, into the next morning for me. I loved your Ted talk, it was great. XD
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iLikeTwoDraw In reply to Aki-Mizura [2019-08-27 02:38:32 +0000 UTC]
I usually talk to my therapist, but I always need someone for backup! Thanks for the offer, I might take you up on that.
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BlaWhi [2019-08-26 20:24:27 +0000 UTC]
Well, I agree that some people are using their mental illness as excuse. But on the other hand, there is a spectrum. Some might have mildest form of these illnesses, some struggle with extreme symptoms and others are somewhere between. People should always do their best, but sometimes it could be harmful to judge and/or ignore someone’s struggles based on someone who might not have experienced the worst of it. That’s at least how I see it.
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Aki-Mizura In reply to BlaWhi [2019-08-26 20:54:26 +0000 UTC]
I agree and i understand that. This is mostly directed at all those kids on the internet looking for attention and also trying to say "you can do things, you may be different but you can still do it!" I understand that in some cases it can be quite prohibiting but in most cases it's not and people use it as an excuse to either not try or as a claim for attention and sympathy. Very good of you for standing up for what you believe and i agree. 👍
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BlaWhi In reply to Aki-Mizura [2019-08-27 19:54:39 +0000 UTC]
Oh, okay. 🙂 I don’t have any personal experience about these “kids on the internet”, so I can’t state my opinion on the matter. Thank you for explaining.
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