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Ahleiae — Socializing with Nai Alei
Published: 2013-06-12 01:42:48 +0000 UTC; Views: 1326; Favourites: 13; Downloads: 2
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He was like 40 years old! How was I supposed to know that me saying I had high standards when it comes to relationships would offend him so much
What did he think I was going to do? "No I don't have one D: Will you be my forever guy?! ¬.¬" <-- My response to my brother at the end of the comic 
*sigh* Sometimes I wish I was better in social situations
sometimes I think I should just stay away from people 
I just don't understand other people's feelings at all. I need to read a book about socializing xD... I seem to be the kind of person who needs specific instructions for social situations otherwise I just mess up...
What do you think? If you understand what I mean.
Twas a good night though ^^ I got rather drunk
not as bad as my brother though ^^ but I was looking after him <3 I don't get to spend time with my brother much anymore. It mean't alot to me <3I made such good friends out of the old guy T^T He was totally lovely <3 So nice, he could tell how awkward I am in this kind of environment AND he was into digital art
.The bar I was in is where my brother works ^^ I was VERY out of place. Its a sports bar and normally full of older men.... I walked in and the first thing someone said to me was "Are you lost!?" xD
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ahhhh.... I know what you mean :'D
about the first part, not the walking into the bar part XD
this is cute <3 great job :3
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I say something very similar to what you said about the boyfriend, but I say 'I don't and I don't care to have one getting in the way of my dreams of having a ranch/dairy farm. That way I know they can come true.
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Exactly
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I was in the same kind of situation around a year and a ago I think. xD
It was in class and we got this new boy and he was sitting next to me, and he asked me a lot of stuff and somehow we got to that topic and I went all 'I will probably never have a boyfriend, cause there's practically noone who meets my standards anyway.' and he was totally 'What?'. xD
I always answer such questions like this... simply because the moment somebody asks me this, I know that they're not the right one for me. 
I have high standards when it comes to boys who are not my 'one and only'. I have no idea who my one and only is, but I'm sure I would know if I met him. ^^
~Lya
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lol xD opps, its just not something you think about when yours speaking ^^
You seem to have got it right ^^. Sadly I could meet my 'one and only' and still end up rejecting him cause I don't like dependance xD
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I have a lot of interactions with people that end like this too, so it's not just you. If that counts for anything. I seem to be too blunt for people to handle. To me, it's just time-saving.
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omg you are so right ^^ thats the perfect way to put it
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Aww, don't you worry! It's good to have high standards, otherwise you'd be stuck with a scumbag, and no one wants one of those! I too have the same thought process as you, honestly. I'm generally really awkward in social situations, and I am the same way when it comes to relationships too. Nothing we ever say or explain will make sense to people that don't know us very well, or aren't like-minded.
Stay who you are, and how you are! Don't worry so much about what other people think, if they don't like it they can just move on or learn to deal with it!
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I will stay the same ^^ Thank you
lol my standards are so high I'll be alone forever xD Which is just the way I like it
At least we have the internet ^^ where we can all be socially awkward together
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Me too!
Indeed. It's always a great place to be socially awkward with other socially awkward people. :3
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lol I was like a tiny 3 year old girl, walking into a room full of wrestlers 
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u got wrestlers to buy your 3-year-old self a drink o.0 xD lol either they were rlly pervy or u were the world's cutest 3-year old xD
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Lol i'm suprised i thought you were less then funny when i followed you btu wow! I was wrong! XD XD XD XD XD XD X XD XD XD XD XD B**ch please! LOL
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Haha xD its actually a real big part of who I am, though when its me, theres a fine line between being funny and being rude
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Wow Serious business B****es
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wow i can't help it that was hilarious!! XD
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xD I did ^^ It was a great night
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Thats good ^..^ gee, you should see how I socialize (oh wait, I don't)
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lol xD I try, just not very good at it
Practise makes perfect I guess hope
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I have the same issue in social situations. T.T; What I say makes perfect sense to me, but it comes across totally different to the other person. I need a translator sometimes I swear. 
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Aww ^^ I love the internet x3 its like a huge support group
We can all be awkward together ^^
Yeah your right
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I wasn't born with social skills like my brother and sister, I had to be taught all of mine by my mother. They diagnosed that social problem in me, and now when I'm in public, I'm either with friends or family, because they kind of act like translators when I'm talking to strangers. At work I don't have any friends, which is why I get in trouble so much. T.T That and I work with all adults pretty much, and they're not very patient or understanding.
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