redig76 In reply to joebev910 [2020-02-13 11:10:49 +0000 UTC]

Yes?

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redig76 In reply to joebev910 [2019-12-10 12:01:19 +0000 UTC]

Okay, but confused. I don't know who you are, and I don't know why you didn't just send me a note instead of commenting on my profile.

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redig76 In reply to plumptopia [2019-02-22 20:55:21 +0000 UTC]

I didn't see anything.

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plumptopia In reply to redig76 [2019-02-23 23:42:28 +0000 UTC]

Well oddly it doesn't show in my SENT file either. Who knows...must have gotten lost in transit. Ha, ha. I have re-sent it to you. It shows up on my end now so should be in your inbox! Thanks again for the faves!

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redig76 In reply to Bloody-Danish [2012-12-20 12:05:10 +0000 UTC]

I know it must seem silly, given that you were dressed as an orc, but I thought you were beautiful. That's why I "watched" you.

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Bloody-Danish In reply to redig76 [2012-12-20 18:19:21 +0000 UTC]

Hehe... ^w^ It's quit alright...
I was cosplaying Oddbit, who is considered most beautiful by the orcs of Elfquest... XD

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redig76 In reply to Bloody-Danish [2012-12-20 20:16:10 +0000 UTC]

I don't know anything about Elfquest, other than it used to be a comic book.

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Bloody-Danish In reply to redig76 [2012-12-21 19:16:59 +0000 UTC]

It's still going strong... ^w^ They're doing the final quest now...

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redig76 In reply to Bloody-Danish [2012-12-21 22:18:20 +0000 UTC]

Huh. That's definitely surprising. I could have sworn that book had been going since forever.

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Bloody-Danish In reply to redig76 [2012-12-22 06:22:45 +0000 UTC]

That true... I been reading since I was a kid... ^w^ As far as I remember, 2013 is their 35 year with elfquest...

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redig76 In reply to Bloody-Danish [2012-12-23 06:11:52 +0000 UTC]

I'd love to keep conversing with you, but I honestly can't think of a thing more to write about the subject...

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Bloody-Danish In reply to redig76 [2012-12-23 07:00:08 +0000 UTC]

Hehe I know that feeling... XD But we could alway talk about something else... ^^

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redig76 In reply to Bloody-Danish [2012-12-23 07:05:32 +0000 UTC]

Sure. I've already sent you private messages. Feel free to check me out all you wish, and ask questions.

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redig76 In reply to Supro3D [2012-01-27 01:51:43 +0000 UTC]

I don't do it particularly often. In fact, it's pretty rare. I'm glad you appreciated it.

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redig76 In reply to frenchfox [2012-12-23 06:42:59 +0000 UTC]

Oh, you're quite welcome! Sorry I missed your statement earlier. Hadn't looked at my profile until now.

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-21 21:31:35 +0000 UTC]

Oh dear God, I *wish* women felt the way you seem to about me! I really AM a decent guy, but almost every female looks at me and thinks "nerd" that I doubt they really take the time to get to know me. I try to be the same person I am online as I am in person, but it's so incredibly easy for people to assume negative stereotypes. You wouldn't believe the hard time I received when I went to a women's forum, and tried to help out with people posting about depression, and answering questions about how men think. Most of us aren't as bad as the media makes us out to be, you know. We're lonely, too, it's not just women.

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-22 02:22:18 +0000 UTC]

Wow...hearing that makes me dislike my own gender that much more. I'm sorry you have so much trouble. And what the heck is wrong with nerds!? Nerds are hot: I love them! Anyway it made me feel good that there's at least 1 guy out there who's not afraid to be sweet.

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-22 02:34:57 +0000 UTC]

Most of the women I've encountered online seem to think all men just want to get in their shorts, or be crude or whatever.

I never understood women, really, since most of them say they want a sweet, honest guy, but never actually try to date guys like me(do you have ANY idea how hard it is to figure out if a lady likes a guy?). I dunno, maybe they got suspicious of males, and stopped believing in decent men...

Sure wish I could find a lady, one who's healthy, busty, intelligent, and a mite silly that was single and in her 20-30's, but somehow all of them live far away or are somehow unavailable.

Good men exist and always have. It's just that women (for the most part) stopped looking for them.

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TheGeckoNinja In reply to redig76 [2011-01-08 20:44:20 +0000 UTC]

i feel you on that dude, through my life I've noticed the guys who know how to get any woman its usually through acting in a kinda douche-baggy way but what sucks is it works, and then you see woman complaining that all men are assholes or whatever and say they want the sweet nice guy but they NEVER go for those kinda guys, even if they say they would
woman have always been hard to figure out since the dawn of man even the most smartest men in history still pondered that problem, which amazes me that its still a mystery XD

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redig76 In reply to TheGeckoNinja [2011-01-08 21:30:56 +0000 UTC]

Men like that can manipulate their way into getting women, but not keeping them. Trick is, how does one do both?

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TheGeckoNinja In reply to redig76 [2011-01-08 22:11:06 +0000 UTC]

well they don't keep them cause they usually don't want to keep them, so id say do the first part of the manipulation, then be nice ...i guess >.>

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-22 02:39:36 +0000 UTC]

I know I haven't tried looking for decent men considering all of the ones in my life have hurt me. Or my anti-society teenage anarchy keeps me from looking. I guess that's why I'm shocked when they're nice to me. I really think guys have it hard. Women are really difficult and I feel bad that you guys have to deal with us.

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-22 03:33:39 +0000 UTC]

Unfortunately, it doesn't much improve as women get older. Lately, I've wanted to approach a few ladies that I thought were gorgeous, but I shied away, thinking that they wouldn't want a guy with thinning hair that isn't rich.. I've got the intelligence (and was aptitude tested) to be a lawyer etc, but I want a more humane career.

Hell, I'd even date an 18 yr old, if she had intelligence and self awareness/compassion I am searching for. Most of the things other people seem to want (height, age, race, religion, weight, money etc) really don't matter IMO. It's who she is deep inside that I care about. She does have to still be able to have kids, since I want to be a dad, though.

Problem is, most of the women I meet don't seem interested, or are suspicious of a guy who is invariably decent. And, they don't have the courage, it seems, to approach a guy on their own. That's why there are so very many women who are still single into their late 30's and 40's, IMHO.

You gotta learn to meditate, clear your mind, then look into his eyes. Trust your instincts, but don't allow your desires to taint what you find. If I could find a woman who has empathic abilities, one that could read me, she'd know that I'm complex, but still very very open. Don't allow yourself to become bitter, to EXPECT men to be jerks, because you'll treat them as such (nobody responds well to that).

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-22 03:39:18 +0000 UTC]

I'm seeing the wonderful intelligence you possess and I'm feeling more and more ashamed of my gender ^-^ Haha but going into high school I'm ging to try and treat guys like actual people instead of these creatures that I don't understand.

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-22 03:48:27 +0000 UTC]

Don't be ashamed of what you are. There's nothing inherent in the female gender that makes them negative beings. All you have to do is just listen, watch, and don't be afraid to pipe up when you have something to say. Be assertive, but you gotta listen too.

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-22 03:50:59 +0000 UTC]

Gosh you're like freakin' Atticus Finch!

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-22 04:38:50 +0000 UTC]

Huh? I know the character, but I don't understand the reference.

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-22 16:48:22 +0000 UTC]

I guess it's because you're so intelligent and well-spoken

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-23 00:21:20 +0000 UTC]

Oh, thank you! Sigh. If only I could find a lady (would definitely prefer a legal age, IMO) nearby that takes to me as readily as you seem to have done. Oh well. I am slowly giving up hopes of finding one that likes my sort, as I have had very poor luck for 15 years now... Gotta get used to being alone, I suppose.

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-23 00:35:01 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry I'll probably sound stupid but what does IMO stand for...?

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redig76 In reply to jessaie [2010-08-23 02:50:11 +0000 UTC]

In My Opinion, or sometimes IMHO which is In My Humble Opinion

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jessaie In reply to redig76 [2010-08-23 18:10:14 +0000 UTC]

Oh okay!

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redig76 In reply to RHEMORA [2010-07-29 05:54:54 +0000 UTC]

You're quite welcome. I wish I could do more!

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