Kingnewcomer In reply to Kingnewcomer [2019-10-20 04:57:27 +0000 UTC]

I hope you've had a wonderful birthday yesterday! ^^ Hopefully, someday, you'll return because we really miss your work!

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Kingnewcomer In reply to trey677 [2019-10-20 04:51:39 +0000 UTC]

Me too!

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to wayne234 [2014-10-20 16:30:36 +0000 UTC]

I did, Thanks.

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to thefunny711 [2014-10-20 16:30:12 +0000 UTC]

Thank You.

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to Triple-B-Lovers [2014-10-20 16:29:12 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to Knifs38 [2014-09-02 15:23:43 +0000 UTC]

It was "Loveembig". It no longer exists.

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to MRNICEFEEDER [2013-12-02 21:19:53 +0000 UTC]

Much of what you see is based in reality BUT a lot of it is very much embellished and exaggerated.

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MRNICEFEEDER In reply to Loveembig-Redux [2013-12-03 13:18:20 +0000 UTC]

I love the way you exaggerate the lines and curves! Your art work to me is fantastic I have admired it for many years but never knew who the artist was.   It is a pleasure to meet you.  I  love the larger body types and have only seen in the 600 lb range.  You were very fortunate it would seem to have had a almost 900 pound wife.   I can imagine that was very difficult?  Which of your drawings are closest to real life would you say.  Will write more later when I have more time. 

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to MRNICEFEEDER [2013-12-04 19:05:41 +0000 UTC]

Which of my drawings are closet to real life? Well that’s hard to say but I guess any of the depictions of smaller more mobile women would be a closer representation. But if I have to pick some of them I’d have to say that the drawings “Portrait of a Fat Wife” and “Eyes” are pretty accurate representations. Also the drawings “Poolside II” and “Hot Chick” would be close physically. There are probably a few others in my collection as well but off the top of my head those are the ones I would pick first. Remember these are my best guestimate and not some carved in stone claim.

Unfortunately the physical reality of an almost 900lb woman makes gauging her size a somewhat difficult task. When you are exposed to that kind of size day in and day out over a long period of time you become acclimated to it. It doesn’t hold the shock value it does for someone who first sees a person that big. You begin to lose perspective on just how big the person is and over time you actually start to think that it’s no big deal. So asking me questions like “how big” or “how much” will probably get you a somewhat skewed vision or opinion.

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MRNICEFEEDER In reply to Loveembig-Redux [2014-02-26 07:04:33 +0000 UTC]

yes I understand that my girlfriend is 600 lbs, and can put it away.   She can gain a pound a day if she tries.     she is not a feedee ut has gotten into eating and gaining so who knows where she will be in a few years.   Did you and her go out much in public?   If not did that stop at a certain point?   My gf is 32 now so time will tell!  

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to MRNICEFEEDER [2014-02-27 20:13:36 +0000 UTC]

Yes we went out in public quite often until she became too big to do so (around 700lbs) and yes we endured the usual stares and occasional rude comments from strangers. Unfortunately once a person gets much over the 600lb mark it becomes more and more difficult for them even if they are reasonably mobile. The outside world simply isn’t made to accommodate people of that kind of extreme size. Also the general public still has a long way to go in socially accepting extremely obese people. There always has been and there still is quite a lot of fat hate brewing in society and it is fed by the media and the medical profession. Being that your girlfriend is 600lbs you are probably well aware of this.

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MRNICEFEEDER In reply to Loveembig-Redux [2014-03-04 16:01:12 +0000 UTC]

Yes I am very aware!   It can be a constant battle with the world.  I suppose at one point it will go in the same direction  as you and your ex.   She loves to eat and does not care if she gains, and rather quite likes it.  She is half way between a foodee and a feedee, of course I am a feeder.    I am aware of a lot of the restraints that her size is going to bring and there will be care issues.  In all seriousness and candor what should I expect as the years go on?  I need to go into this with total open eyes.  Thanks for your replies both in the past and future. 

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Loveembig-Redux In reply to MRNICEFEEDER [2014-03-05 19:31:07 +0000 UTC]

It’s good to see that you are going into your relationship and responsibilities with your eyes open. Too many guys who profess to love a ssbbw only want to deal with the fantasy aspect of their relationship. Too many don’t want to deal with the social, physical and emotional hardships that come along with the territory.

As for what you can expect; there is a multitude of things you will face because her weight is going to impact almost everything in your daily lives; so let’s cover the easy to deal with stuff first. Mobility will be one of your biggest challenges. Make sure she remains somewhat mobile for as long as she can. Fortunately times have changed and bariatric walkers and various hygiene aids are readily available on line. It’s unfortunate but it’s a fact that once a person of size stops moving that’s when the troubles really start. Sedentary behavior and lifestyle is the worst thing health wise for an ultra-ssbbw. That being said you will need to make your home supersized size friendly which means an uncluttered floor plan (fall prevention), wider doors, limited or no stairs, heavy duty plumbing fixtures, an additional refrigerator and freezer for food storage and supportive furniture, etc. You will need a thorough safety plan in the event of a fall or fire. If she falls and she is uninjured you will need equipment to get her back on her feet. In the event of an emergency such as a fire or flood you will need an egress plan for her or a safe area in the home where she can be safe until help arrives.

Be prepared to spend big on custom clothing and undergarments for her and if you haven’t already done so, look into the option of a mobility scooter for her when you need to walk long distances. They can be very expensive and you generally get what you pay for so my advice is to get the best one you can afford. Depending upon where you live she could be eligible for one thru disability and her doctor. She will need to have her doctor fill out some paper work and submit it to the state disability office. Be warned that if you chose that route you will need to do it before she hits 650lbs. For some odd reason people weighing more than 650 are sometimes denied their claim because their weight exceeds the limitation for most electric scooters. I know of one young lady who was recently denied a scooter because she weighed in excess of 700lbs and her doctor could not get an approval for her because she was too heavy. If you have the means to buy one out-right, then don’t bother with the hassle. Also when it comes to mobility scooters and if your girlfriend is like my ex she may not want to use it because of the stigma attached to it. You will have to be supportive and let her do what she will and let her come to the realization that she needs it. You just need to be supportive of her decision while making her aware that the scooter is for her safety and to protect her health.

Next; the not so easy things to deal with. I don’t want to scare you or put you off in any way but as she grows and as she ages there is a high probability that she will face significant health risks due to her weight. I know that there are no guarantees in life but the risks she will be taking with her health are much higher than average. First of all you need to be on the lookout for heart disease. Monitor her blood pressure daily. Keep an eye out for edema on the legs and ankles. Swollen ankles and legs can be a sign of potential heart issues. Make sure she see a fat friendly doctor and has an EKG preformed at a minimum of twice a year. If she hasn’t already done so she may develop type II diabetes and may require medication or insulin on a daily basis. Check her blood sugar levels every day even if she doesn’t have diabetes and keep a log so you can track trends and limit her blood sugar spikes. You can expect to message her legs feet and back quite often because her load bearing joints will be supporting a lot of weight. Joint stress and damage is common for supersized people. You will probably need to bathe her because her reach will be limited. Eventually you will most likely need to help with her toileting needs. Expect to put a lot of time into skin care. As she gains weight her skin will be under a lot of stress and care will need to be taken for it to remain healthy. A good moisturizer and a daily application will go a long way to keeping her skin in good shape.

If you plan to have children, that carries with it another entire list of health issues to deal with. Bariatric pregnancies have all their own special requirements that are in addition to all the normal issues facing pregnant women. Depending on her flexibility, her reach and her size you may even need to be prepared to take care of her during her monthly menstrual cycle. I don’t want to gross you out but it will give you a whole new appreciation for what women have to deal every month with just so we can reproduce. All this can be very taxing and demanding because you will not only be her lover but as she grows and ages you will need to assume more and more of the role of caregiver. If you can afford it look into a home health aide to assume some of the responsibilities or maybe the help of a close relative or friend. You will need this just so that you can go to work or catch a much needed break. If you are like me you will want to do everything but even the best of us require some occasional down time.

Now the really hard part, to put as point blank as I can, if you are in it for the long hall do not expect her to live to see a ripe old age. I don’t want to get morose and I don’t want to get preachy but on average extremely large people do not have a good track record when it comes to mortality. Even if they lose weight studies show that the damage done by extreme obesity is rarely reversed and weight loss has little effect on their higher than average mortality rates. This is the tragedy and the double edged sword we lovers of SSBBWs face. We love our big fat women so much, that we are all probably guilty of loving them too much. Unfortunately all too often we play the role of enablers and we harm what we love most in life thru kindness. Now I’m not saying that you should deny you taste in women or change in anyway. All I’m saying is be aware of the risks you two are taking and if you find them acceptable then by all means go for it. Since you say you want to go into your relationship with your "eyes open" I feel that it is appropriate to tell you as such.

Well that’s the basics. As you probably know everyone’s experiences are not and will not be exactly the same but you will find some commonality throughout all of the relationships men or women have with people of size. If you have any truly specific questions feel free to ask. It costs me nothing to impart some of my experiences to others and thru my experience hopefully I can make the life of someone like you and your girlfriend’s a little easier. Sorry to be so long winded but there is so much info in my head on this perticular subject that it is easy to lose sight of brevity. LOL.

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MRNICEFEEDER In reply to Loveembig-Redux [2014-03-25 19:34:56 +0000 UTC]

 I am sorry for the delay in responding.   Thank you for your long windedness. I do find it a turn on in the caregiver role for some reason so everything seems to go hand in hand.  She is very top heavy and has somewhat thin calves which I believe is an advantage to her mobility.   She is on the border of a foodee/feedee loves to eat and is really super ok with her size.   I have addressed the issues of her stopping her eating to which she replies she never sees it happening.  She is not reay turned on by her size but is turned on by my reaction.  The only problems I ever see is if the foodee/feeder  sides clash.

I have seen many gals gain for their partners but really are not into it like you and I are.   She loves food and loves her body and thinks she is sexy.   SHe eats constantly and loves it has given up on diets and given into her eating.  She gains at a super fast rate too, easy for her to gain a pound or two a day.     She   Do you see this as a potential problem.

She tells me she is ok with taking on the ultra-ssbbw role and is ok with scooters and things like that.  SHe does say she wants to always be able to walk which I think is necessary. Rosalie walked at 1300 lbs.  My GF has legs that wont impede that and at 32 she  has no health issues at this time. 

I have been in a couple of relationships where I truly set out my desires in the beginning, both times the gains never really happened like I expressed in the beginning and I really want and am ready for it. What do I do give up who I am?  Never get what I believe I was made for?  I really find gals over 600 totally sexy, and the bigger the better !

I want your feedback and support as you have been there.  Thank you sincerely for you time!

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