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EnglandAdvice
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[2011-08-19 14:28:03 +0000 UTC]
"Advice my dears?"
(United Kingdom)
# Statistics
Favourites: 1667; Deviations: 67; Watchers: 334
Watching: 124; Pageviews: 28341; Comments Made: 4916; Friends: 124
# Interests
Favorite movies: The Notebook (Alfred this movie took all my tears!), Courageous, Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe; Prince Caspian; Voyage of the Dawn Treader, and the Harry Potter moviesFavorite TV shows: Winnie the Pooh, Cake Boss, Monty Python, Say Yes to the Dress
Favorite books: A Tale of Two Cities, Oliver Twist, The Scarlet Letter, Black Beauty, Alice in Wonderland, Titanic. Oh my there is just too many to list!
Favorite games: The 'Leave-England-Alone-So-He-Can-Work' game
# About me
My name is England.
Arthur.
United Kingdom or Great Britain and Northern Ireland.
With past pains,
And broken hearts,
That was broken over and over again.
I have gained knowledge,
From the past that has made me.
Understanding,
Things happen for a reason,
Caution,
To not make the same mistakes twice,
And a heart,
To care for the empty.
It hurts to see,
What had happened before,
But it hurts more,
To know that there are others going through it,
Or worse.
So please don't hesitate,
To ask me for help,
I will do the best I can,
To guide you to the right path,
To help you live happy and accordingly.
# Comments
Comments: 2110
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Dear Mr. Great Britain and northern Ireland,
I came here to seek advice I know you are wiling to give. I have a friend... Well I 'had' a friend of whom I love so dearly. She and I were close since 3 years ago, and I found something very real in our friendship. So real, that I even had the craziest thought of falling in love with her. But I knew she loved someone else. That didn't bother me though, at least I had her friendship.
But then, this friend of mine tends to get very desperate over her love life. She had a dozen or more crushes that promptly rejects her because she was labeled as 'too clingy and flirty'. Yes, that was true. I couldn't be her aid in that matter since it was the truth. But I was angry at those boys who took her love for granted. Here I was, willing to give her the love she craves for, yet she just sees right through me. Yet again, I didn't mind it, because I was still her closest confidant and her best friend.
As out best year in high school came to a close, she had sunk lower into depression of yet another failed love. Maybe out of desperation, maybe out of need, she ran to me and accepted me as not a confidant nor a best friend but something deeper, more intimate. Of course, I was overjoyed. At last, I can show and treat her the real essence of loving someone. I was jovial at the thought of having my best friend as a lover, for it was the most beautiful love story of all.
But it was not to be.
The way she treated me in the multitude of our relationship was nothing more than that of a best friend to her own. I knew it needed sometime, but I couldn't help but feel that I am standing there as just a replacement for something she truly wanted. Call me a consolation prize, an alternative choice if there is none left, because that's what I felt. A poor choice of paper to cover a hole.
I knew I could never give her what she wanted, so I took the liberty of breaking up with her, to set her free. To my utter heartbreak, that didn't even faze her.
2 years passed as this event was buried under stones and earth. We avoided the topic, I became less than a best friend to her, but nevertheless, we were in good terms again. I met another girl during our last year and fell in love, truly in love, and my feelings were reciprocated a hundred times than what I could give. With this, our relationship stopped bugging me. Past is past, and I intend to convert all of my hate into love for my one and only.
But here we go again. Another problem sprang up. Since my best friend knows about my relationship with this girl, she and her 'new gang' had purposefully accepted us (yes, I'm a woman in love with another woman, but I do not want to be called by such an offensive tag name like 'lesbian') Just to turn our sexuality against us. She had told a very obnoxious guy that I hate with every fiber of my being to spread the word about me and my love. Of course, it was offensive, and I knew she did it just to spite me with some reason that I was 'being bossy'. And plus, her whole gang finds us repulsive, bless their souls to hell.
Because of that, I shunned her completely, disgusted on the fact that I loved this human being that was once so gentle, now a boy-chasing lunatic. This seem to make her hae me more, and we ended up being so hostile to one another that I had gotten tired of it. She once said we were best friends forever, but just some low-class, holier-than-thou friends had come into her skin and she morphed into something hideous. I just... sometimes I wish the old Bea would come back. I miss her and our crazy moments with old friends whom she had also mistreated.
I just want to make peace with her, that's all. But the action she did was too much. Even so, I want to forgive her, for at least the rumour hadn't spread that.much to destroy our dignity, but I just can't seem to know how. Or should I even make the first move? How can I approach my once- bestfriend-now-stranger?
I'm sorry if this was too long for you, sir, but I just needed someone's advice on this for I have kept this matter for god knows how many dreadful months...
I hope to see your point of view and advice on this as well.
Many thanks,
Angel
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I am not England, and I am not sure where they've gone. It has also been a year, so I'm not sure if you are still experiencing this problem. However, if you still are, here's a point of view.
I'm not sure if you should forgive her, as it seems like she's turned into such a toxic person. But, if you truly do desire to give your friendship one last chance. Just make the first move. Nothing will happen until a first move is made. If you want to reconcile with her than just go ahead and try.
Simply ask what happened. That seems to be your biggest concern to me. What happened to your former best friend that turned her into whatever she is.
However, if you attempts are in vain, I hope you realise that it is so. You seem to also have other friends and a new love. If your attempts result in nothing, then you must simply let go.
Congrats on your new love. You deserve that more than being a replacement.
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Hey, I don't know if you still check this blog or anything, but I wanted to let you know I won't be on dA any more. If you wanna chat sometime confusion-is-wonderful.tumblr.… that's my url. I'll send my email or something to you in a pm. I hope to hear from you
Sincerely,
CanadaAdvice
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Firts of all, the Name's Mary...but I don't like being called by my name or my username. I'd rather be called Some sort of pokemon freak...
Anywho....My sister, wants to know how you put people to sleep(she's the admin of a France, Prussia and 2p!America account and needs to put them to sleep for some sort of torcure.)
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By the way, you seem like a pretty nice person. c: I'm an advice-giver myself (though not much on deviantArt.) I might start a YouTube advice channel. It always makes me happy when I see other people doing the same thing 
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Thank you so much, darling! I'm also glad to hear from other people who enjoy helping others! Makes this dark world not so dark anymore y'know? But I will be rooting for you for whatever you will do on here and on youtube if you do so, so make sure to send me your channel name I'd love it!
Thank you again!
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Thank. o: I'm not sure what it'll be. I'm guessing either 'Swirledinator' [link] or 'SwirledThoughts' [link] . Still trying to decide, I have a lot of gmail accounts so I have more than one option, heh. Maybe you can help me decide? I'm probably not going to post anything on either of them for a while, but I will one day. ^^
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Sorry, I can't accept accept your submission to #SupGuyKingdom . We're a group for the SupGuy figure Cryaotic has created. ^_^ Instead, you can submit to #CryFans or #CryPlaysFan , they're pretty chill groups, and they accept Cosplay submissions ^_^
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Oh, I'm sorry! But thank you I was trying to find more groups ^ u ^
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Do you have any advice for dealing with homophobic people? The town I live in isn't very accepting of different sexualities and people's comments are really starting to get to me. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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Dear waterfall248,
I had a friend who was homophobic because he was molested by a teacher. Now he was truly just scared and just kept his distance with others who were homosexual, never mean to them. Now I told you this because homophobia is different than from someone who isn't accepting to the way people are. I get a lot of people calling out homophobic people when in reality they aren't homophobic, they are just rather mean and rude because homophobia is a fear. Now I do not know the situation you are put in, maybe they are scared and mean also, but I wouldn't know I am just going off of what you said and from what I am reading, those people just seem rather mean not scared.
But as to how to deal with them, those who aren't so kind. The best advice I have you probably know, is to ignore them and understand that they have no part in your life that will help you grow and succeed. Try to avoid them, to not get in contact. Until they start throwing fists at you, there's no reason to become too engaged. Less is more. Because it is only affecting you, not them. Some comments may be harsh and hurtful, but know that they aren't true keep your head high. Because this is your life, not theirs.
With all the love,
England
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HAPPEH BURFDAI ENGWAND! (even though I suspect you're not here anymore)
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Well, hello, England
( *cough* I think you might be the first England page I've found that isn't all yaoi smut XD )
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I am so sorry for the late reply, I had just come back from a very long break from here. But darling, I'd adore talking to you, and I can be snappy when I want to be, but overall I'd like to call myself rather friendly.
(ooc//: Haha am I? I think that's a good thing isn't it? lol)
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That's quite alright, my friend~ 
(Yes, it's a VERY good thing XD Shock horror, but I'm a Hetalia fan that's actually not much of a yaoi fan 
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That's wonderful to hear! I'm glad to hear you enjoy living in my country! And it's an honour to speak to you as well, darling.
//My that's not very common in the Hetalia fandom, I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one haha. I don't really have a taste for all the explicit things, but hugs, fluff, and kisses is what is more favorable to me ^^
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I'm actually really touched that you take your time out of your busy life as a nation to run this ask blog - it must be a stressful life, doing what you do. I don't think I'd cope XD
(Yeah, me neither XD And weirdly, I prefer the straight pairings to the homo ones. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a homophobe, but with some of the pairings I just don't see it. Like USUK for example...I see them as brothers and friends, not lovers. It earned me a few strange looks at a convention I went to XD)
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Well, I understand we all have hard times. I enjoy seeing people happy, so it feels nice to help them out when they aren't feeling the best. But to be honest, it isn't as stressful as before, the questions just became overwhelming in numbers!
//Oh of course I understand ^^ I actually like straight pairings more, but with Hetalia and the fandom you can say I got sucked into it haha.. I'm actually a pretty big USUK fan haha, but not really as lovers as you say, more as the relationship they had in Hetaoni. Although, I'm pretty flexible with England to tell you the truth ^ u ^; Haha everyone has their preferences so it's all okay!
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I'm the same, I love making people happy ^^ I think it's just one of those simple pleasures in life.
(Yeah, and I admit that sometimes I like certain pairings when one of the countries is their genderbent counterpart. I'm quite fond of England x Fem!America, and I absolutely adore Germany x Fem!Italy
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England, I really need your help here :/
I tend to be really anti-social sometimes, especially at school..I don't talk much to people I don't really know..It has improved this year, I'm starting to open up to people...but a new svhool year will start, and we'll change classes again, change students, and so, I'm afraid I would shut down again like I did last year, and the year before :/ I really appreciate your help, thank you..
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England, has the world ended or something? None of the other countries seem to be responding to anything except maybe America and Belarus. (though I haven't checked on her. *shiver*)
It would seem perhaps everyone has abandoned the cause for advice... >.>;
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Allo, Angleterre! ~
(This is the male France at the ACEN photoshoot, I've changed accounts on dA and I wanted to let you know... and I am still Stealthykitten on the forums
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you are my next target,
you have to many memories of me
good bye sir,
to the being you once new,
you will never meet again
//rp chat if that is okay
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W-what..! Alice!!
// Hun I just got an iPhone and am now able to go on Skype. I am so sorry for making you wait but honestly time is not on my side :'c
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im going to need to erase your memories like i did to the others
that is including like my brother
good bye sir
it was nice knowing you
you will not remember the sadness i have caused you
-places her hands on your cheeks making him face him staring at him-
// lols yays im just happy your back, message me on skype when ever and ill try and reply asap X333
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hey Mr.England...I have a question...
what do you do if you're stuck in a love triangle with your best friends...?
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Salut~!
I'm back, after a bit of time.
I'm sorry for such a long absense...
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Well, Mr. England, I am in need of your advice, if you will give it. I seem to be somewhat antisocial, in that being around people (even those I love) can be rather draining for me, and I can only do it for so long. I just find it easier to be by myself. However, I don't want to hurt my friends' or family's feelings. What can I say to them when I want to be alone without making it sound like I don't want to be around them or that I'm sad or something? Thank you so much, for reading or answering.
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Hello~ It's the Seychelles that isn't a Seychelles yet ='.'= are the admissions done yet?
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Not yet I'm sorry! So many people have yet to reply to me..
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((ENGLAND. I LOVE YOU FOR EVER NOW! OLYMPIDFGHYTREDSFSA))
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// Ah! What did I do, hun I'm confused.
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((the Olympic opening~!))
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((England I'm having a major crisis and I am in need of someone to talk to!))
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// Im so sorry I couldnt answer sooner! What happened..?!
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((It's fine. Hetalia just ended. I just saw the final season of Hetalia. (I have no idea if that counts as a crisis, but the feeling of misplacement it has left me in might be)))
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Scott was smirking to himself as he approached his little brother England.
"'Allo, lad... haven't seen you in awhile"
he puffed on a cigarette, standing tall with a hand in his pocket.
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