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Description An inexplainable yet incredibly strong feeling for someone...Most people use the word "love" to get into someone else's pants. Love is overused in today's world, people say they love someone because of the way they look or their body. That isn't love. Love is when you can't do anything without thinking about that person, you always want to be with them. It's not that you want to have sex with them, you just want to spend time with them and you just want to hold them and never let go. Love can be fooling, you can think you're in love and it can lead to the most horrible feeling in the world. Also you can wait so long for someone, loving them, and waiting for them to love you back, but they don't return it for a long time and you spend years thinking and thinking and it tears you up inside but when that person realizes that they love you back it's miraculous. Love is a very strong word, don't overuse it.



This is something that requires a great deal of maturity and emotion. It is only ever effective in the case of lofty strong loving relationships. In many many cases people can be far too simple minded or immature to benefit from a long distance relationship. If some one is more interested in intimate physical contact with others than they are in emotional bonding than they should not and will not function in a long distance relationship. But if both partners are very serious about each other for reasons beyond physical it can be very worth it because in that situation, one may find it impossible to be satisfied with a replacement relationship.



Truly loving someone means that you care deeply about another person. You care if they screw up their lives as you want them to learn to love themselves. Love doesn't mean life is going to be perfect, it shouldn't be taken lightly, and the word shouldn't be misused, if it is used in a romantic way. There will be arguments and misunderstandings, but love will mean that you will try and get over any hurdles and issues together. True love isn't selfish and can bring people together in a way nothing else can, it is a soul connection, a commitment of the heart. Life can tear people apart but love may bring them back together again. Love should never be taken for granted, although often it is. Love is more balanced than the highs and lows that passion and frustration bring. Love will conquer all, but only if work and effort from both sides is implemented in order to not destroy love. Love can be slowly destroyed piece by piece by violence, abuse, neglect, dishonor, and disrespect. So always make sure you honor true love. Understand that it is not perfect, then you won't feel let down by love. Each time you fall, love should be there to pick you up again, but sometimes it takes effort to remember not to misuse love by taking it for granted. Love doesn't happen as often as people think, but if you have lost love, you will find it again one day, - never lose hope.



Love is when all you care about is their happiness, safety, and health. If they are gone for more than 2 minutes you already miss and long for them to be next to you. Their smile makes you melt, their presence makes you grin and feel happy. Like a burning fire in your heart erupts when you fall in love with them and never goes away. Just a simple hug from them makes you feel unreal. A kiss from them makes you feel loved and makes you want to show your love for them. You would die for them, you also sometimes cry for no good reason, other than, you want them by your side. You actually find yourself listening to love songs and think about them day in and day out. You want to hug them and never let go; you want to gaze into their precious eyes like there is no tomorrow. They are beautiful. You've felt attracted to others, but she/he never leaves your thoughts. You can not picture or imagine yourself loving anyone else in your entire life. They truly make you happy and you long to make them happy, your heart gets a weakness feeling when you see them. Your chest gets weak, you get shaky and may sweat around them. You are afraid of saying something stupid and may beat yourself up over something you said that you felt like it came out dumb, though it might not have been stupid. You have told her that you love her/him, passionately and truthfully. You would never lie to her/him, you feel like you can tell her/him anything. You stand by her/his side no matter what happens. You feel like their very existence completes you. Around them, nothing can go wrong, all is right in the world.
For those that have been rejected, but still love somebody: If you are friends with each other now, don't worry about it. If you truly love them, they will see it in your actions and very well may grow to love you. Just don't let go of hope.
For those that are in love, but don't know how to tell her/him: Just tell them. There is no simpler path to take. If you are already BoyFriend/GirlFriend, then that is wonderful. Find a nice place to just sit down and talk, just tell them.
Love affects any age. I will repeat this one: Love affects ANY age. I know that some people say things like "Oh he's just 13, he can't love." That isn't true. Some people are more emotionally mature than others. Just because some kids haven't been in love doesn't mean it isn't possible at their young age. I completely encourage all ages to not hide this feeling, telling someone about your love for the person, normally a best friend of the opposite sex is the best option.


Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.
This love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust the other with your life and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone you want nothing more than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes because that's how much you care about them and because their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of yourself and can tell the other anything because you know they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.

It's when they're the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when you're thinking about them and miss them.
Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate. Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when you're in love. If you find it, don't let it go.
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Comments: 19

That-Bhunter [2011-01-12 05:04:25 +0000 UTC]

You've put into words what I've been thinking in my mind. I completely agree.

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to That-Bhunter [2011-01-12 16:41:55 +0000 UTC]

It's good to know there's others who think the same way you do, isn't it..
And thank you for the

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RPopper [2011-01-09 17:54:44 +0000 UTC]

AGREED.

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to RPopper [2011-01-09 18:12:32 +0000 UTC]

Good, others who agree..

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RPopper In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 18:21:46 +0000 UTC]

^-^

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VigilNebula [2011-01-09 10:19:04 +0000 UTC]

Some one has been very busy it seems...

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to VigilNebula [2011-01-09 18:11:51 +0000 UTC]

You could say that.. I was interested in what others thought.

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VigilNebula In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 18:24:22 +0000 UTC]

Well, I suppose you know my opinions on this

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to VigilNebula [2011-01-09 19:36:54 +0000 UTC]

I would guess that I do

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VigilNebula In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 19:44:46 +0000 UTC]

Probably, yes

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PolkaDotXO [2011-01-09 05:09:04 +0000 UTC]

AMEN!

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to PolkaDotXO [2011-01-09 18:12:58 +0000 UTC]

Thanks, you agree!

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PolkaDotXO In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 18:14:24 +0000 UTC]

its so fucking true tho!

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to PolkaDotXO [2011-01-09 18:22:41 +0000 UTC]

Yeah it really is..people take the word so lightly and it pisses me off

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PolkaDotXO In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 18:44:58 +0000 UTC]

i understand completely. i mean it's like love is used to say that "you mean a lot to me or i appreciate you."
to me, "love" means "you are my world and i want to spend the rest of my life with you." when you're speaking to someone that is.

when you say "i love ya", then it just means a causal thing between friends but when "i love you" it's like i said above.

ya know?

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to PolkaDotXO [2011-01-09 19:41:20 +0000 UTC]

I agree with you completely about what it means to you. it means the same to me.

i know exactly what you mean. I believe saying "i love you" is something that should be handled delicately, not used as if it means nothing

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PolkaDotXO In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 20:29:51 +0000 UTC]

YAY! finally someone who understands!!

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xPainfulxScreamsx In reply to PolkaDotXO [2011-01-09 20:55:52 +0000 UTC]

its good to have someone else who sees it the same way

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PolkaDotXO In reply to xPainfulxScreamsx [2011-01-09 21:14:44 +0000 UTC]

DEFF!!

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