Comments: 120
FluidGirl82 [2019-05-10 16:47:48 +0000 UTC]
I was officially diagnosed when I was in middle school. This was because my sister had been tested and diagnosed with ADD (she's the older one). I'm in the combined category. I can't pay attention, and I definitely can't sit still. Something on my body has got to keep moving. Also, NEVER try to hold a conversation with me if there's a fuzzy animal in the vicinity. I'll be paying more attention to the animal than the conversation!
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Tortive [2018-02-25 19:55:22 +0000 UTC]
I have ADD (yes, I was diagnosed by a real doctor).
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
non-void [2018-01-17 05:11:42 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, I was about that age when I first got diagnosed. Most days I can function just fine but, it's frustrating when friends and family just can't seem to always quite understand or keep up with me.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
DarkenedSymphony [2016-12-20 06:34:00 +0000 UTC]
This almost made me cry knowing that there are people that understand
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
fost0385 [2015-09-18 12:29:55 +0000 UTC]
I was diagnosed in first grade two!! #relatable !
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
AlliCat44 [2015-05-19 02:25:42 +0000 UTC]
I have ADHD too but I take Concerta and I like the way it works. It better for me than Adderall. But my mom took me off the anxiety meds cause it made me too "oppressed" along with the ADHD meds.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Mangled-Mangle1987 [2015-01-25 01:51:36 +0000 UTC]
Ia have ADHD. But it doesn't effect me too much because I take my medicine.. I also have highfuctioning autism. I have weird vision as well so yea. But honestly I love myself for all this stuff
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Mookie-Mooks [2014-02-25 05:01:39 +0000 UTC]
I was told I had ADHD in the fifth grade. To be honest, it didn't really surprise me, as I had always been very hyper and lacked the ability to sit still. I had trouble focusing, as I was always observing the little flaws in everything (I didn't have glasses back then, so examining things was hard, as I cannot see color in one eye and have horrid vision). Sure, I have always been a straight A student, but still. I am introverted, and when I tell people that I have ADHD and am introverted, they never believe that I have this condition, or that I am introverted. I am a quiet person, but that is only because I take my pills and try to stay away from caffeine, though sometimes I have caffeine or don't take my pills. If I do that, then I'm an even messier hot mess.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
WanderingSketch [2014-01-18 16:21:25 +0000 UTC]
I got diagnosed with ADHD last week, I'm 16. I always noticed that I learn twice as slowly as my older sister, and I was hoping I wouldn't have to stare at my computer screen and cry because I couldn't concentrate when all I wanted to DO was concentrate!
Before this point, I'd done WHATEVER I could do to improve my focus. I exercise 2-3 times a day, 30 minutes to an hour and a half at a time, and turn on rain background noise while I work. I frequently clean my room and vacuum and move from one spot in the house to another. I open the blinds and bring in 2-3 bright lamps and set timers (no longer than 20 minutes), begging myself to focus for that long before I jump out of my chair.
I was(am) DESPERATE to work hard! I can get very far using tips on how to cope with ADHD, but it's horrible to work 8 hours and only get 4 hours worth of schoolwork done.
This is my third day of taking Vyverse. I honestly hate my personality when I'm on/not on the meds. I don't mind any of the other symptoms, but I hate that my maturity is melting away. Moments where I'd usually be very calm and negotiative have me in shambles, snapping at my family or friends. My head feels very clear, but I've become very apathetic. Like that feeling after you've just cried your eyes out and you're now calming down.
I'll continue taking the Vyverse, this week I'm taking 20mg, next week 30mg. I honestly think I'll ask to get off them, but hopefully I'll adjust and they'll really start helping me focus. I think it's important that I continue eating better, exercising, and prioritizing. I usually have 10 different things on my mind at once; on the meds, I only have 1-2. I used to chase my tail all day, half-completing tasks because I had no patience/adequate attention spans to finish the projects. Procrastination is MUCH different than not being able to focus! So I'm hoping I'll be able to breeze through schoolwork now (hah).
I was really surprised at just how EASY it was to diagnose me. They just did little evaluations, sent to my family and teacher (my mom), and then said, yeup, you got it good! They didn't... offer tips of how to live without medication, therapy, etc. Just said- "take these meds and see us in 2 weeks!" THAT makes me a little worried. I wish they'd like, idk, offer alternatives, explain that meds won't change anything without lifestyle/habit changes, and explain what those changes may need to be.
Well, there's my story.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
UltiMeef [2013-10-22 15:03:19 +0000 UTC]
I have ADHD too. I hate it when people who don't give me a hard time. Alot of them think its not a severe disorder. I am also a legal genius or something. My grades are terrible.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
katheb [2013-08-11 22:28:06 +0000 UTC]
That is a good description, I always have a hard time explaining to people what it means. As every situation gets a different reaction.
And when I Hyper focus I am accused of not having ADHD and that annoys me. Just because I can focus randomly, occasionally on interesting things does not mean that the rest of my life runs smoothly and easily.
Simple decisions or tasks that are easy for others can be so annoyingly difficult do complete focus on it almost hurts. Even when Logically you can think "Hey this is what you should be doing because it will conclude the task successfully." you still end up distracted because that is how your brain works and you then get annoyed about it later.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
CartoonNetworkgal [2013-06-04 03:09:33 +0000 UTC]
I hate it when people say it's fake! There is proof that it exists, and there are certain differences between those that have it and hose that don't!
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
agentcoleslaw [2013-06-03 15:23:51 +0000 UTC]
You just summed up my entire life! Cannot fucking stand it when people think that ADHD is a myth or could be cured by "better upbringing". Interesting how they don't have such comments about something like schizophrenia or tourettes, isn't it?
However, it makes up so much of my creative/artistic/bubbly personality, which I am thankful for. My medication strips that from me.
Thanks for the post, very very comforting to see someone in such a similar situation to mine.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
AyeshaMarie In reply to agentcoleslaw [2013-07-08 12:56:16 +0000 UTC]
I agree, although thankfully I have never been diagnosed and put on medicine
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Theshadigi [2013-05-07 00:36:33 +0000 UTC]
ADHD sucks ass, but I found a way to use it to an advantage
ADHD happens when a person thinks faster than usual, which is why a lot of people with it studder a lot. I studder too, but I found a way to harness my mind, and use my ADHD to my advantage. I mean, i am very smart, and i use my ADHD to come up with my greatest ideas.. as well as harnessing my boredom for the better.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
ChaoticDA [2013-04-19 21:46:18 +0000 UTC]
ADHD IS a pain in the butt, I've been diagnosed since I was 7 or 8 and I'm 18 now. I've switched meds and I'm taking Adderall 10 mg and its 5:41 pm and I have eaten absolutely nothing today, drank a mountain dew that was it. We took a note written by my teachers with us to the doctors appointment, I got to read my teachers observations, with my old meds(concerta) I was having difficulty staying away, falling asleep then waking back up, swaying, zoning out and not eating( this is observations over 3 months on a dose of 36,27 and 18 of the three months) We already were aware of the eating thing but then he asked me how I slept and such, well now I gotta go get tested for Obstructive sleep apnea, which apparently is common in ADHD diagnosed teenagers.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
Theshadigi In reply to ChaoticDA [2013-05-07 00:38:55 +0000 UTC]
Dude, DON'T FUCKING TAKE STRATARA. That medicine caused SO many issues with me when i was in 3rd grade, and i ended up BREAKING MY GLASSES OVER MORTAL KOMBAT (If you know me, when I rage quit i just say "Fuck it" and switch the game out with something else)
This happened due to anger problems i got from having this pill, and IT SUCKED in 3rd grade. It really caused issues at school and home, so i had to stop taking it after the TAKS test.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
ChaoticDA In reply to Theshadigi [2013-05-07 00:48:30 +0000 UTC]
All I've ever taken for my ADHD was concerta adderall and the patch
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
italianscorpio89 [2012-12-20 17:23:30 +0000 UTC]
Wow. Your story is exactly like mine. Exactly. Only my grandma was my guardian angel through this hellish disorder. I have the symptoms as you have stated up above and also went through the same stuff you did too. and LOL to the bold lettering in parenthesis because I know EXACTLY what you are talking about! I can't finish a story or a poem.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Trigonography [2012-10-26 19:17:59 +0000 UTC]
It's not easy to take ADHD as a serious diagnosis if you don't understand a bit of psychology to start with; the symptoms sound an awful lot like stupidity or laziness or "being a kid," whatever that means today. I've listened to otherwise fairly intelligent people say that ADHD is a scam, a hoax made up to sell drugs to kids. It saddens me, because although I'm sure misdiagnosis occurs, it very much belittles those of us who genuinely suffer. And those who acknowledge the existence of this condition but say that we could conquer it if we just "tried harder" puts me in mind of something said about clinical depression: "Trying to use willpower to overcome the apathetic sort of sadness that accompanies depression is like a person with no arms trying to punch themselves until their hands grow back. A fundamental component of the plan is missing and it isn't going to work." (got that one from here [link] ) Willing yourself into focusing is downright paradoxical. I've tried it-- in a dull but important lecture, mentally shouting at my brain "LISTEN TO WHAT HE'S SAYING NO DON'T DOODLE FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS!" is about as distracting as someone actually shouting in my ear.
People with ADHD get little sympathy. Too many people think it's a failure of morals, bad parenting, too much sugar/fat/nutritional-bugaboo-of-the-week-erol; too many people think that it's possible that trying harder solves problems. It's just not as simple as people tend to think it is. And worse because ADHD symptoms tend to get in the way of their own treatment (be that medication or therapy or training.)
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
MountainLygon [2012-09-07 14:58:43 +0000 UTC]
I'm probably ADD. Have been since high school at least, but I haven't pursued a diagnosis. I embrace the squirrel jokes because a) they're surprisingly accurate and b) I...like squirrels. I honestly forgot what my second reason was...
Oh yeah! Because I think that if you can't laugh at yourself then you can't heal.
One of the misnomers about ADD is the idea that those of us who have it can never focus on one thing. That's not true. We CAN focus on one thing, but we can ONLY focus on that ONE THING. It's called hyperfocus, and I think it's what's responsible for artistic ability being a trend among ADD sufferers. Where ADD hinders us is in our inability to focus on something that doesn't immediately capture our interest (in other words we have no self-discipline), or our inability to focus on more than one thing at a time (multitasking). ADD is not just about being easily distracted. What makes it a learning disorder is that the one thing that's most difficult for us to learn is self-discipline. What we need most is not drugs but simple accountability.
As for you, try using caffeine (low sugar and NO carbonation) to help you focus. Like coffee or strong tea. It'll probably make you a bit drowsy but it does mellow ADHD-spectrum sufferers and with the exception of mild fatigue is lacking the side effects of some of those nastier drugs.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Durrender [2012-05-10 11:38:53 +0000 UTC]
Wow, I could really find myself in your text.. I stoped taking my medication, thou, because it made me suicidical and depressed. Also I'm kind of a symptom bearer because of a difficoult childhood, but the fact that I have adhd is making thing extra hard. I just wonder if you've manage to find a way to make it easier to concentrate in any way? I'm havin' a hard time to figure out my self and also make people, (exspecialy my teachers and friends) understand that I kind of have a 'problem'
And now days thigs are gettin' hard, i'm havin' a few final exams and stuf, and there's so much pressure, but I can't concentrate on workin' with the school, nor anything else at the time. But people will think i'm lazy, and I might be... but my lazyness really isn't the problem... (i'm sorry xD I'm rambling.. I can't write straight, and i can't make sense of what i've written if I read it, so hopefullt you understand what i'm sayin' x') )
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
Rissa-Lynn-Kole In reply to Durrender [2012-05-10 19:53:36 +0000 UTC]
I'm good at concentrating now. If I'm at least a little interested in the subject, or if I'm motivated. Like, I know in school that if I don't pay attention, others will get better grades. And I'm competitive about that kind of stuff..
Idk.
Maybe mix Adderall/Ritalin with some kind of anti-depressant? I'm not sure if you're allowed to do that though. I would do it anyways, even if they said it was dangerous. *shrugs*
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
Durrender In reply to Rissa-Lynn-Kole [2012-05-10 21:10:39 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, so am I, but at this time, consentrating is really hard O.o
I tried antidepressive, but i turned into some robotsomething! I didn't feel anything.. nor happy or sad o.o it was scarry..
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
Rissa-Lynn-Kole In reply to Durrender [2012-05-20 12:15:37 +0000 UTC]
Adderall makes me feel numb and makes my depression worse so they made me stop taking it. Even though I liked it.
And try coffee beans or energy drinks? Things with caffeine calm me down/knock me out.. Maybe it'll work for you? I know coffee makes me really sleepy.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
OfLiesAndBrokenTrust [2012-04-06 23:17:29 +0000 UTC]
I was diagnosed at 10 but I "forgot" I had it in high school since I wasn't medicated and was able to cope with caffeine and I don't know what else. Because of that, in college now, it has all gone to shit. I have had teachers attack me for not being able to hand in my work on time or hand it in at all. It's a struggle because it isn't enough to get me registered with the "disability services" which would get them off my back about handing it in on time, and it's too much to quite function "normally". I completely agree that it is something legitimate. The whole "ADHD isn't a real disorder, it's just something to stamp on kids who are intolerable" argument has lead me to invalidate my symptoms and make me feel like a worthless failure...
Now I am the one forgetting where I was going with this...
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
MountainLygon In reply to OfLiesAndBrokenTrust [2012-09-07 15:04:55 +0000 UTC]
Getting your teachers to recognize your ADHD will not grant you leniency on assignments due. What your teachers need to do is provide increased accountability for you. I'm ADD, but I don't think that entitles me to slack off on my homework. That will only exacerbate my condition. I need discipline. And I need help getting that discipline since I'm almost incapable of learning it myself.
ADHD is not an excuse to procrastinate. It is an excuse to work harder and reach out to others to help you work hard.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
OfLiesAndBrokenTrust In reply to MountainLygon [2012-09-07 20:53:42 +0000 UTC]
I don't expect leniency, I only care about them understanding why I am not able to do certain things. It is tough (for me at least) when people attack me for something I really can't control, which makes me feel guilty and then there is an increased spiral downwards and then the project becomes pegged as negative and then it is avoided all together. I say it more as I want them to understand that I am not just blowing everything off on purpose. In short, being told "there's nothing wrong with you" is a giant slap in the face and it just haults any way of compromise and understanding. In no way do I feel entitled to slack off on homework, in fact, I'm the opposite really, I destroy myself mentally over not being able to do school work when I need to, my friends can attest to this. I'd rather not have the words of my teachers aid in eating away my sanity.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
MountainLygon In reply to OfLiesAndBrokenTrust [2012-09-07 23:38:00 +0000 UTC]
The problem with adult ADD is we're pretty much on our own when it comes to finding accountability (which as you know makes it even more difficult, as ADD hinders our get-up-and-go). If your teachers are too self-absorbed to provide that accountability, look for it elsewhere. Seek it out wherever you can. There should be counselors at your school who understand and can help you.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
253valerie [2012-03-28 23:34:59 +0000 UTC]
I'm ADD, yes I know it's all categorized under ADHD now, but I'm not hyperactive so I usually just say ADD. I actually avoid telling people at all costs that I've been clinically diagnosed with ADHD because so many people thinks is just an excuse... I actually waited until I was an adult to even talk to anyone about it because I was so embarrassed, but deep down I knew it wasn't "normal". My spacey-ness and non-existent attention span was always a joke to my family and friends, but really it sucks, and it's totally real, not an excuse at all.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Tigare [2012-01-15 01:53:13 +0000 UTC]
I can only kinda relate...I've been diagnosed a year or two ago, and I have the inattentive type. I've learned to make fun of myself for it, but that probably only works because I get made fun of for everything else anyway. I've just started an amphetamine stimulant, Focalin, and it's working so far. I have a sever case, but that's not what bothers me: It's the constant being yelled at by my parents. This combined with my natural personality means I'm low confidence, anxious, jumpy, and self-deprecating. I'll shut up no because no one cares about me. (See? Self-deprecating. Shut up, self.) But it is definitely a disorder as just "trying harder" can and will not fix it. I went through that sort of "treatment", and...well, I don't want to talk about it. To all those who have it and read this, keep marching on.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
InsaneXSeraph [2011-12-15 01:14:23 +0000 UTC]
ha ha now I can relate to you ^u^ I've had ADHD all my life. since I was a tike and still now. glad to see I'm not the only one with similar views It's not really a condition if you think about it xD some of the greatest artists, theorists and even philosophers were believed to have it as well.
it just means your brain is wired differently than others. the reason people like us feel like its a "disorder", is because the system doesn't work around our mentality. It's a gift when properly used. The only part that sucks about it is that people will sometimes label you as unintelligent sometimes, or even a maniac.
just think about it this way, if it weren't for us "ADHD children" a lot of today's technology never would have existed XD we think differently, we see things differently, we adapt and can think of multiple thoughts at the same time. were geniuses without the acknowledgement, the importance is for you to understand where you stand. who you are, not what others WANT you to be, or what is considered "normal" by them.
Getting distracted easily sucks, but when we find something we WANT to do and LOVE doing. Not even the hands of God and Satan could stop us! we are among the most specialized kind of people out there, embrace that!
We don't need a cure, we need respect and mutual understanding.
ADHD is not a disease or a condition, it's just another variation of the human mind.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Aish-the-cat [2011-09-07 11:23:21 +0000 UTC]
ADHD is mad overdiagnosed, though. I was actually diagnosed with it, but I'm neither overly hyper nor inattentive. ._.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
katheb In reply to Aish-the-cat [2013-08-11 22:33:26 +0000 UTC]
Be glad that you don't have it. Be very very glad.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
free126 [2011-09-05 23:55:58 +0000 UTC]
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I believe i have ADHS and in many ways i hate myself because of it! It would be so much easier to live a normal life. BUT ADHS comes also with some positive syntoms which they are exactly, please find out for yourself (i can think of multitasking, very fast learning if focused, fast reactions, high sensitivity..). I believe also, so many kids are born with ADHS- more everyday, this is not a desease anymore, its a mutation that can be a advantage in the future. As some of the posters stated above we can concentrate on things... on what, why and how... that is the question. I think we need to develop new technology which can fit the "requirements" of ADHS. This same technology will be considered as "future-technology". So what im saying that we are way behind the natural evolution with our new inventions. To change that we are in need probably of whole new systems (to end capitalism, communism and such i think these systems come with the distractions to disperse people, so its more easy to make decisions above peoples heads. this is the same reason why religions and fundamentalism are coming back... there is "less" distraction and the people can make simple decisions). We need to find ways to change that... there are possibly more "deseases which point in that direction.. i know its strange to think that way but i try to find a positive spin on the situation, since i think nothing is happening without a reason. 👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Thundercat16 [2011-09-05 23:32:03 +0000 UTC]
I was just recently looking some mental disorders and whatnot up on the internet, and I can tell you without any doubt that this is definitely a disorder, since it does affect the brain in such a way that the person cannot change it themselves.
I also hate it when people diagnose themselves with disorders they don't even have. I've told quite a few people off about joking about Schizophrenia, ADHD and depression. They pretend like they have it, saying that they have all the symptoms of the disorders. I don't understand why people feel the need to fit into those categories. I know that people like to separate themselves from others, find something that makes them 'unique', but this isn't the way to do it.
Personally, I think the reason why the doctors are considering this is because of those kids who walk into their office, pretending that they have said disorders, and later finding that they were apparently 'cured' without medication. That makes them think that there was no disorder to start with, and it's only the thought process of said person that was the real problem.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
Rissa-Lynn-Kole In reply to Thundercat16 [2011-09-05 23:37:29 +0000 UTC]
UGH. I hate when people say things like "I feel hyper because I just had an energy drink. I have ADHD." or "I have depression?" "Why?" "Because I'm upset that I don't have any more birthday cake left."
*Facepalm*
2 problems I have are ADHD + depression.
The ADHD makes me think of like a million things to do a minute and the depression makes me not want to do any of it.. So yeah...
And I'm also very strict about organizing and cleaning things. They have to be perfect, so I see something out of place, and I want to clean it or fix it or whatever, but I also don't want to do anything..
Ugh.
👍: 0 ⏩: 0
Tainted-Oktober [2011-09-05 23:31:13 +0000 UTC]
I see nothing wrong with people who have ADHD, but I do with the whole "I.Q of 130, etc" I was to accepted into a gifted program when I was young, and my I.Q is 107. I believe acceptance is based off the general motivation and abillity of the student.
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
TheWickedKid [2011-09-05 22:48:09 +0000 UTC]
My brother and I both have it as a part of the cocktail of impairments the asperger's brings on. I find that if I multitask I can do alright, but my teachers don't understand and tell me that I should just go on drugs (which have worse side effects than the actual disorder) if I'm really having trouble. My brother found that drinking energy drinks helps him focus (it acts as a stimulant), and coffee beans help for me.
It still bugs me when people say it's not real. same with Asperger's. :I
👍: 0 ⏩: 1
| Next =>