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Itti — Sorry for disappearing
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Hey guys, really sorry for the unplanned hiatus. I know, it's not like me to suddenly disappear without saying anything. Well actually it sort of is and sort of isn't. I've been here eight years now and in the first five years or so I would sometimes have longer breaks away from dA, often over the summer. But the last 2-3 years I've had more responsibilities and commitments and it's not a fair thing to do. Even when I've been busy I've at least checked in and kept on top of anything urgent - or, when I've known I'm going to be away, I've notified my groups in advance and made arrangements.

So what happened this time? Well first of all work got really busy, which set me back for a week or two, but it wasn't a big deal, I was going to log in and catch up. But then suddenly my grandma went into hospital and I had to get a flight down to where my parents live to go and see her. It wasn't a great time - she died in the nursing home that she was in, and then there was the funeral - I was down south for over 2 weeks in the end and of course it was all totally unplanned, I literally dropped everything and got on the next flight I could. And didn't know when I left that I was going to be there for so long. The last week or two I've been catching up with everything else including work whilst knowing in the back of my mind you guys deserved an update but not being able to face the backlog. Sorry about that

I'll do my best to get caught up with messages/comments first then catch up with things in my devwatch. I'll take care of the group stuff as well but I'll talk about that on the group blog - that update will come within the next hour.

I know there were a bunch of you who were worried about me and I'm really sorry about that. I didn't mean to disappear without warning, it was all very sudden Sorry again

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Comments: 17

ragados [2013-07-04 23:03:47 +0000 UTC]

Hey hun. I am sorry to hear about your grandma. I still remember her and the 'nights are drawing in' statement every year. Hopefully we can catch up soon.

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Greywolf42 [2013-06-27 22:05:45 +0000 UTC]

I'm really sorry for your loss, I have been there also and I know you have to put everything in your life on hold. My thoughts are with you....

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SweetlyPeachy [2013-05-24 22:58:46 +0000 UTC]

I'm really happy your ok! But I'm really sorry for your loss

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AzeilaRose [2013-05-20 14:32:46 +0000 UTC]

I'm so sorry about your grandmother. I know she's in a better place now, but it's still so hard to have to say goodbye. I hope you're doing well, and if you need someone to talk to you always have me, I promise!
You don't have to apologize for being gone. You have a life outside of DA, and everyone here that truly cares about you understands that. I love you Itti!

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exia-4ever33 [2013-05-11 17:40:39 +0000 UTC]

hey at least you're safe and sound, that's what matters right?

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Eldr-Fire [2013-05-11 13:29:31 +0000 UTC]

My condolences about your grandma. Losing a family member that way is really hard. I'm really glad to hear you're all right, and that you're back. Just take your time getting back on your feet on dA.

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MrsPhantomSylvia [2013-05-11 09:56:48 +0000 UTC]

Im so sorry to hear about your Grandmother, I understand completely that you dropped DA for a while. I hope youre allright and if you need to talk just send a message!

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claremanson [2013-05-11 04:52:57 +0000 UTC]

sorry to hear about your grandma, i lost my grandad almost 4 weeks ago rather suddenly so I know what you mean about everything having to be dropped, family is the most important thing so do not apologize

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LilPKCreations [2013-05-10 23:56:17 +0000 UTC]

Very sorry to hear about your loss. I am glad you are well and back though, we missed you!

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Vivacia18 [2013-05-10 22:41:53 +0000 UTC]

My condolences for your grandmother love

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BeccaJS [2013-05-10 20:44:47 +0000 UTC]

I'm very sorry to hear about your grandmother. You have nothing to apologise for and don't feel you have to read everything and reply to every comment here, nobody will begrudge you if you didn't.

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Anjet [2013-05-10 18:26:25 +0000 UTC]

Sorry for your loss, and no need to apologize. Things like this can happen, and family is important

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JulesDrenages [2013-05-10 17:24:38 +0000 UTC]

Sorry for your loss.
Don't worry about your absence, we all have our own business and real life to take care of, it happens to have little time for ourselves and our online communities. We'll be here whenever you'll be able to come back.

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LionesseRampant [2013-05-10 16:29:52 +0000 UTC]

Thank goodness you're alright. I'm sorry about your grandmother.

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Kaninano [2013-05-10 15:58:49 +0000 UTC]

ohmy i'm glad you're okay but.. that is not good I'm really sorry for your loss take as much time as you need~

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Living-In-Whimsy [2013-05-10 15:09:24 +0000 UTC]

You have no reason to apologize for something unexpected and out of your control. You did what anyone would have done.

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PHarold [2013-05-10 15:07:47 +0000 UTC]

Don't apologize.
That was all unexpected and losing a dear family member on top it all. I am so sorry for your loss.

I know what you mean about work. But when it comes to things like family, we all understand. Taking care of yourself, loved ones and your health is paramount. I just hope that all is now well with you.

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