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There's nothing wrong with being single! I want to have a guy that will come up to me, tell me that he lvoes me and holds my hand in public. That won't happen until I am halfway done university as I am not ready for that yet.
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I like to daydream about boys, but I don't ever want a boyfriend until I am mature and can deal with it. Unlike (sorry people like this) those junior high boys/girls who date just because they think someones attractive and are awkward about it.
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My views are different on that manner but I still love the picture(: and I respect you guys views. I love the color of her hair its so red against her soo white skin it looks awesome and looks so care free
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Same here ST, same here. 
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I know my friends are happy with who they are, but they also want relationships. One of my friends I think it would be nice to find someone who was attracted to her because she has tried to initiate relationships before but they don't seem to work out. Who knows why that is, but for her it's kind of like a kick in the shin after she gets the courage to go out and put herself out there.
I think people who are searching for relationships don't always do it because they are so lonely or sad, they do it because they miss the type of connection and that closeness that comes with one. To be able to have someone that you can share a lot of adventures and a lot of life with is what they seek. Plus it helps to have someone who feels the same way emotionally about you as you do them is quite wonderful.
As my friends said, they are happy with who they are and they are by no means lonely, they just miss the feeling of having that special someone there to share moments in their life with and give their love to in a way you can't with friends as much.
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I also wish more people would realise this. I mean, I'm happy in a relationship right now, but I think I could be happy if I was single. It just makes life so much less complicated, and I wish more people would realise this.
Single doesn't equal lonely, and being in a relationship doesn't equal happiness. You go, ST!
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Yes, definitely. A bunch of my friends around me are always complaining that they're single. It's not even that they like someone; it's just, "I want a bf soooo badly." Quite honestly, crushes are always bothersome. I always feel a lot more free when I don't have pesky feelings for someone. While I like someone now and would love to score a date with him, I want specifically him. Any boy won't do. And if he just wants to be friends, that's fine, too. I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy. What people don't understand is a boyfriend is a commitment. Yes, it can make you happy, but eventually, some shit will hit the fan.
One of my close friends recently got her first boyfriend after wanting one so bad. She didn't even like him all that much when she agreed to be his girlfriend. He treated her like shit, she dumped him after 3 weeks, but she still believes that the only way she can be completely happy is with a boyfriend. The worst part is her other friends who I'm not as close to are only fueling this mindset and she refuses to listen to me no matter what I say. The most depressing thing about her is she's never had a close guy friend without developing feelings for him. I know that she'd be a lot more happier if she realized that a boyfriend isn't her one way ticket to absolute happiness.
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..with your genitals, naturally.
xD But no really, I hate people like that. I agree with you, I won't be happy with someone unless I really really like them. Same as you, not just any boy will do, which is why I fell in love with and am currently engaged to my best friend. xD I don't NEED a man to be happy, it just happened, and I'm happy with him. But I know I'd be fine if I was single as well. ^^
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Of course. Everyone strives for a relationship with my genitals. ;D
Being with someone you don't really like, but are with because you think it's better than being single just bring upon way too much stress and complications. Being singe isn't bad; in fact, you are free to do whatever you want. I just wish more people would understand that.
Ohhhh congrats! I wish you two the best of luck!
I myself will never go down the friendship rout again. I was in love with one of my best guy friends for 2 years and it was a mess. Now, we're acquaintances at best and he usually refuses to talk to me unless I start the conversation or if mutual friends of ours are around so our only contact with each other is very rare conversations about school work/after school clubs we are both involved with. We sometimes go more than a month without speaking to each other. These days, despite the fact that I no longer have any romantic feelings for him, I find myself missing his friendship more than anything.
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Hahaha, nice. ;D
I COMPLETELY agree with you. I don't understand why people would do that.. in the end they'd get even more miserable and unhappy. It's just such an unnecessary waste of bad feelings and experiences.
Aw, thank you!
I'm really sorry to hear that.. it can be tricky can't it? I've been down that very same route.. we were both way too long and the BEST of friends. We got into a relationship, and I broke up with him twice, it was awful. Everything changed, and we argued every day. This was all online, but we did meet up in real life with our mums before he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. He was madly in love with me, but I never felt the same way. The arguments just got worse, and in the end, we just stopped talking. He's been very busy, so we did talk sometimes, but it rarely ended well. So, I know the feeling.. and it is horrible. I miss his friendship a lot too.
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I know. Relationships are such a stress. The idea of dealing with all the complications for someone you don't even like all too much is just unthinkable for me.
Aw I'm sorry. It just sucks so bad talking to someone to try and gain back the friendship, but seeing that it will probably never mend because of the emotional baggage that was in the past. These days, we can't even talk about movies, his absolute favorite thing, without fighting and it makes me beyond sad. Maybe it's for the best with these types of situations to just let them go. I sometimes wonder where the two of us would be if I had never made my feelings known, but I don't really regret it. It helped me moved on.
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I am the exact same way, ST, and I find there's a lot less heartache involved.
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I wish some of my friends would realise that, it's awkward when they keep asking if I've found anyone yet. I'll tell them that I have other things to focus on right now but they seem to see it as a cover up because I'm sad that I haven't, which isn't true =/
I know I'll be happy with it when the time is right, but at this point in my life it's not something I want.
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Good for you for realising that about yourself. I almost wish I was like that so I could live my life without worrying about finding a partner.
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I have watched so many relationships fall apart around me because they felt they needed a relationship so badly they would end up in horrid ones ... that I am not sure how dating and stuff even works. I know happy marriages exist but I don't see many happy dating couples which makes me doubt romance.
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That's exactly what I thought! Haha.
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Same.
For a really long time I thought I needed a boyfriend, but once I actually gone one I realized it was annoying and I would rather be left alone. I dumped him almost immediately and have been content since.
Society and the media have this way of making one feel like they're not complete without a lover, but it's not true. Power to you for being single and happy.
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I'm exactly the same, I thought I wanted a boyfriend because all my friends were in relationships - once I'm in one, I just get stressed and want to be left alone. I'm too solitary for this stuff. xD
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Me too. When I'm in a relationship I get way stressed, like if I'm good enough for him etc, so I prefer not being in one C:
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