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# Interests
Tools of the Trade: Pencil, eyes, nail polish, pictures, paper, paintbrush, paints, creativity.Other Interests: Nail art, drawing, fun stuff.
# About me
I am me. I am odd, strange, wild, flexible, pale, tall... And I have green eyes, not blue eyes.Yeah. Heh.
If you have any questions about my art, or would like permission to do something with my art, do feel free to ask, I'm not selfish. I'll get back to you as soon as I can.
Current Residence: California
deviantWEAR sizing preference: Medium to small, so it doesn't look like I'm wearing a sack.
Favourite genre of music: techno, goth rock, or anything I just happen to like.
Favourite style of art: Digital, photo, sketch, or paint.
MP3 player of choice: iPhone/iTouch.
# Comments
Comments: 827
FootFetishGuy1961 [2017-04-20 02:21:07 +0000 UTC]
love your page, thanks for all the posts !
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Electricbassguy [2016-03-04 16:05:32 +0000 UTC]
Posting again to express my desire to be inside you because you're beautiful.
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Electricbassguy [2015-05-06 22:11:17 +0000 UTC]
Hi. I'm a weird smelly boy that you talked to once on YouThink, aka the Socially Retarded Network.Β
FTR I'm banned from there for another 17 months so I can't post there anyway
You're pretty and talented and stuff..
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2014-03-27 21:35:53 +0000 UTC]
Thank you! 21 at last! And man have I taken advantage of it!
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2014-03-29 15:52:36 +0000 UTC]
Oh you're 21 now? Well in that case you deserved some mo' of these :
nothing wrong with imbibing alcoholic beverages esp. during a celebration. Freaking Bible Thumpers get on my nerves with that "it's a sin to drink". Jesus drank WINE during his Last Supper let alone one of his miracles was turning water into wine, so where they get that b.s. from is a mystery. What makes drinking a sin is overconsumption, not knowing WHEN TO SAY WHEN. THAT'S when it becomes a problem. Glad to see that you know the difference if that's what you were referring to....
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2014-04-01 22:54:39 +0000 UTC]
Oh, I have drank plenty, but you're exactly right. It's okay to drink... Just not to get drunk. I've tried and drank all knids of drinks. The only time I got drunk (and it was seriously minor drunkeness) was when I met friends at a brewery for beer tasting, and tried tasters of 6 different beers on an empty stomach, then went back to the friend's house for another taster of beer, then sampled their pear-cinnamon-vanilla bean moonshine, then went back to my new boyfriend's house for a margarita, then baileys and Kahlua in cream, then more moonshine, then more baileys and kahlua. Even then, I was still able to complete sobriety tests, everything was just spinning. Β
HERE'S TO FINALLY STAYING AFTER HOURS AT RENAISSANCE FAIRE AND BEING ABLE TO TAKE PART IN FESTIVITIES~!
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2014-04-02 16:25:48 +0000 UTC]
Damn you got a hell of a tolerance for a bony tenderoni. Doing all that drinking on an empty stomach and not getting sick or hung over is a feat in of itself but I almost forgot you're Irish--it's in your people's DNA.
One thing I've learned when I was younger is drinking and smoking weed on an empty stomach DOES NOT MIX. YOU WILL GET SICK EVENTUALLY. I definitely learned my lessons from that.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2014-04-03 08:22:20 +0000 UTC]
Well, I guess I didn't, because the next time I drank, my boyfriend mixed me a margarita with around 2 shots worth of tequila and I was pretty drunk.No hangover though. That's good. The new boyfriend is a big (6' 3" and ~250 pounds) 30 year old irishman. HE can drink. It takes a lot to get him drunk.
As for the weed thing, new boyfriend isn't fond of drug use. I have looked into it for my depression instead of Paxil because Alfonso was okay with it, but new boyfriend is a ranger for Boy Scouts and my actions can reflect on him, so no mejical marijuana experimentation for me. I wouldn't smoke it anyway. I'd be eating it.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2014-04-03 17:35:40 +0000 UTC]
Eating is is even better, you'll get higher and stay higher longer and stronger. Not to mention most people these days vaporize instead of smoking these days because that's also healthier and easier on the lungs and of course gets you so FUCKED UP.
30 yrs old and a HUGE Irish lad? Yeah I don't see any perverts trying anything with you when he's around lest they catch the beatdown of the century. I didn't know Alfonso was so open-minded about that sort of thing let alone you, you're surprising me more and more these days girl. I don't even know you anymore.......you're lookin' REAL unfamiliar to me right now.......
..........damn--where's Jenna? What happened to her? Where is she? I don't see her.............can I help you ma'am?
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2014-04-07 08:58:08 +0000 UTC]
I do have a vaporizer for fun. No nicotine though. It gives me a headache... But I'm told vape-ing the cannabis oil smells just as bad I don't need to walk around smelling like pot.
Alfonso had a lot of drug-addicted friends. He wouldn't join, just babysit. He considered it for his bipolar and depression. I didn't touch the idea until a classmate of mine-an ex-marine with OCD, OCPD, and PTSD-looked into it to ease her symptoms. The corner of a pot chocolate bar can help her relax and be happy for the first time in years. The poor girl is perpetually enraged, so tense that she aches and cannot relax at all, and just generally is never happy. Cannabis time is the only time she can relax and have fun and just be at ease. Hearing that story, and currently detoxing off of my antidepressants, I wish I had gotten a card before going on Paxil. Detox/withdrawls are a total bitch. Like being drunk without the fun of drinking WHILE being on an energy drink. I'm dizzy, jittery, my brain is mixing up words, my moods are swinging way too rapidly, and I'm just not all there. If I had chosen pot instead, I could have avoided this.
Hah, yeah. He's not really a guy to mess with. He used to kick box, he can lift metal canoes single-handedly, he has been in the Scottish Highland Games, and he is just built like a wall. He picks me up and carries 145lb me with one hand... He also keeps... 6 or 7 weapons in his room, and another 5 or 6 around his house, and that's not counting the ex-Sargent marine roommate and his weapons. This is the same guy that got me into Renaissance faire and makes my costumes.Β scontent-a-sjc.xx.fbcdn.net/hpβ¦
Psh, I'm a model now. I'm a woman of many faces. Soon to be added to this list will be Wrath from the seven deadly sins, and I will aslo be modeling for the same hair competition I was in last year.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2014-04-07 17:06:17 +0000 UTC]
Wow, nice photos. Looks like I found some new inspiration for portraits. You're definitely a chameleon that's for sure, the fashion world LOVES models like you because of that versatility. They'll sell their own mothers for a girl like you. You planning on doing more of the 7 Deadly Sins or just Wrath? I'd be curious as to what your Gluttony looks like.
Damn your boyfriend is strong, but how much effort could it be to pick up a bony tenderoni like yourself? Doesn't look like much. That pose is way cool though, perfect for another portrait. I get the impression that it's one of your favorites of you 2 yes? If not it should be. What's with all the weapons and what kind does he have? I'm certain it has to be MORE than just guns. Unless you're a hunter, law enforcement or military personnel I don't see why someone would need more than 1 gun let alone fully-automatic weapons. People crying and bitching about their guns being taken away just comes off as cowardice to me, all you need is a pistol if you live in the city--nothing else. Anything else is just overkill. And if you're going to own a gun LEARN HOW TO USE ONE. Go to a firing range or practice on bottles and cans or something. Too many people with a gun and don't know how to aim and shoot let alone clean one..........
ok enough of my gun rant. I wouldn't consider myself anti-gun, just someone who exercises common sense is all. I don't like gun nuts, they're too fuckin' paranoid and stupid for me, they look for trouble just so they can pull out their gun and try to punk you. I don't have time for that stupid shit. I've seen idiots like that in the 'hood for too long to have my opinion on that, and I'm talking about kids mostly.
NOW with this woman who's a vet that has PTSD and other emotional conditions associated with war, I was reading a article on RealitySandwich.com about this dude who directed a documentary on healing soldiers with ayahuasca to purge them of PTSD and other spiritual/mental maladies. I'm not a vet but I do suffer from PTSD due to my childhood and even adulthood with so much bullshit that has happened to me (physical/emotional/spiritual abuse, being homeless countless times with and without family, being betrayed by family time and time again, and other things) and it seems each time something happens I get worse and worse to the point I'm where I am now, just a fuckin' WRECK. This time I plan on going to the Amazon for a spiritual retreat this year (hopefully this Summer), so I need to book tickets early if I'm going to go. Thing is I'm not sure which retreat I want to go to. I was planning on this one in Brazil for 7 days that's around $1400-1600 bucks until I found out about another one last night called The Temple of the Way of Light in Peru that has alot of shamanas (female shamans, or "shamanesses") and is for 12 days. That retreat is $2100 though. If it wasn't for the fact that Jeremy Narby went there I wouldn't even consider it due to that price and time length (then again I figure the 12 days would be worth that price). Jeremy Narby is the author of the book "The Cosmic Serpent", which was about his experience with ayahuasca, VERY well-known book. It ranks up there with "Ayahuasca Analogues" by Jonathan Ott, "Breaking Open The Head" with Daniel Pinchbeck, and the one that started it all "The Yage Letters" by William S. Burroughs which were correspondence letters to Allen Ginsburg while he was in South America. Here's the link to the article:
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......hmmmmmm.........maybe I should send the links to the retreats as well...............
Spirit Vine--www.spiritvine.net/our-retreatβ¦
Temple of the Way of Light--templeofthewayoflight.org/
let me know what you think about dat dat dat dat dat dat dat dat dere Fly Girlie.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2014-04-09 23:00:13 +0000 UTC]
I was only invited to be Wrath for this photoshoot, though if a photographer approached me wanting to do the whole series, I'd be ALL over it. The last photo, the one that was labeled Posh Underground is actually a magazine that is about to get started up. Wondering where that will go. The photographer need to find a new name for his models though. I don't think calling your models P.U.G. is really flattering. -_-
Oh, apparently he is 315lbs. He is just unusually strong and is really muscular. As for the picture at renaissance faire, it has been his running tradition for wears to take a picture with a girl on his shoulder. This is far from my favorite picture of us two together, it's just one that portrays him as proportionately as I can.Β
Only one of the weapons in his house is a gun actually. The rest are swords of all kinds, staffs, nunchucks, a nightstick, a butterfly knife, ninja stars... He does costumes and collects weapons that can be used with characters. He also likes to just have unique weapons in general. One of his swords is a tribal sword made from the blade of a swordfish. His nightstick and gun are both police issue (which he is good at shooting, and I have just had my first lesson. I'm apparently good with rifles. not so much on 9mm... Too much firepower for little ol me), and the nunchucks are a tribal thing as well. I don't remember from where... He is also a Disney nut and has pictures of Disney characters hanging next to his swords.
I'm all for using more natural remedies and therapy to heal wounds of all kinds. My mom and I have been using essential oils since October and they really do just speak for themselves. it's a pity that so many people ned to take a pill to feel better these days. These essential oils make you feel better AND make you healthy at the same time. No harm done. I woke up this morning after spending the night over at boyfriend's helping with construction on his flooded house (which half of the house needs to be ripped out due to mold) and I came home coughing, barely able to breathe, and tasting iron when I coughed. I have been breathing in diffused vapors of essential oils like a humidifier, and I'm not coughing anymore. Good stuff.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2014-04-10 03:05:47 +0000 UTC]
"P.U.G.s"...........Posh Underground Girls eh? What about Posh Underground Bitches--P.U.B.? Posh Underground Divas--P.U.D.? Or maybe Posh Underground Honeys--P.U.H.?
Ok NONE of these sound good, the P.U. fucks it all up. They definitely need another name though, something classy if it's called Posh Underground.............
Disney and weapons............for some reason I think Mr. Walt would be pleased with this imagery. I had a feeling dude was into more than just guns, but a sword made from a Swordfish? That I like, reminds me of those clubs made from bones of Orcas that those Eskimos have. Very resourceful. So you know how to shoot a gun eh? Did you like it any? We gonna see you at a future shoot skeet shooting with a gown on and a crown and tiara on and high heels? How's that for a shoe ad eh?
What kinds of oils do you have/use? I've wanted to make my own for awhile--oils, tonics, tinctures, and the like. There's one site I've been to that I haven't in awhile that specifically deals in TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine). It's located in Az and it was so close to Tucson that ordering it in the mail only took 2-3 days to deliver--instant service (nobody could go to the facilities as the site stated--only mail-order). It's called Plant Cures and basically has tonics and capsules for all kinds of stuff. My ex Theresa still gets her medicine for her thyroid and gall bladder after she couldn't afford it through the hospital, something about her insurance cancelled because of her divorce. Here's the site, maybe you'll find something on here that you like, hell I need to order some stuff on there again:
www.plantcures.com/index.html
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2015-01-03 09:43:29 +0000 UTC]
As it turns out, he has some odd concepts, but the Posh Underground shoots I have done with him turned out really great! This was from my second shoot with him:Β www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbiβ¦ . I have another shot he asked me to keep private because he didn't like how it turned out, but I adore it! He had me jumping in 7" high heels. I need to get in contact with him again once I do something with the disaster of a hair color I did for my last modeling event. The photoshoot I was asked to do as Wrath took a different direction and turned into a contest entry, and we ended up getting flown to florida and I did runway looking like this:Β www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbiβ¦
Yeah, Walt Disney doesn't like weapons, but they come in handy. I enjoyed learning to shoot, but I won't be spending most of my time in a shooting range any time soon. I'd do it for a photo shoot though!
Oh, no tiaras for me anymore. The princess thing has been ruined for me. I got a professional princess job this summer and it ended in a lawsuit. Not a happy camper in that realm of life. My court date isn't even until January of 2016. If I win, I'll be coming into a couple thousand.
My mom and I use Young Living essential oils. We have about 100 different kinds of oils currently and their wolfberry juice. They have come in immensely helpful. I've used it to save my older cat from dying of malnutrition when she stopped eating during a bout of arthritis, and another time when she got an ear infection. We treated the ear infection completely with oils and dropper fed her the wolfberry juice, which stimulated her metabolism and got her eating again. Now I'm using them to treat my mouse for a skin infection and he is recovering nicely. I used them for everything. Migraines, nausea, skin problems, aches and pains, etc. I've been allergy tested this year and it turns out I'm allergic to 79 things at least. Especially mountain trees and american cockroaches. I'm apparently deathly allergic to a tree that doesn't even grow in California. If I go to northern US states, I'll probably need to get an epi pen. This also explains the inability to breathe. I have asthma that gets agitated by all the allergens at Michael's house. Eucalyptus, mold, dust... Diffusing the essential oils helps reduce bronchial inflammation without needing an inhaler.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2015-01-03 17:49:25 +0000 UTC]
Eucalyptus? That really sucks because from what I've read it's the perfect cleaner and disinfectant next to Lavender. The only allergies I know about are during the Autumn Season when I'm in heavily forested areas and the Trees are releasing the last of their pollen (or at least certain trees of which I'm still not aware which I'm allergic to) for the Year. When I was in NC it was HORRIBLE, I was constantly having Migraines and getting sick. When I lived in Tucson those problems disappeared that 1st year but afterwards I began getting pretty bad Migraines and that was because of the humidity rising during the Spring and Summer, which is completely uncharacteristic of the Desert. That type of climate is dry and arid, not moist and humid. You went to see a Physician about your allergies or what? Also link me this site, I'm interested in their products even more.
Now WHAT'S this--a LAWSUIT? That's 1 word I SWORE would never come out of your mouth. How did you get sued for a job you were being paid for? I'm trying to figure out how that works.
Ok so that's good that you aren't becoming some Gun Fanatic like too many of these nutjobs in this Country these days. I'm personally fed up with the lame excuses as to why people feel like they need a Gun when it's all bullshit. I read a story earlier this week about a Mother who was shot by her 2-yr old Son in Wal-Mart by a concealed Pistol she had in her purse. Apparently he pulled it out and pulled the trigger. How much therapy is that kid going to have to endure for the rest of his Life knowing he killed his Mom? Hell how can the state of Iowa prosecute a case like this is another question. You'd think with stories like this people would rethink owning a weapon but all it does is make them buy one.
I'll DEFINITELY peep these photos and let you know what I think, I always like seeing your Modeling pictures, they're so AWESOME!!!!!
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to SelyaMakeup [2012-09-23 06:54:05 +0000 UTC]
You're welcome!
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to QueenBee174 [2012-09-23 06:54:13 +0000 UTC]
You're welcome.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to Jessica078 [2012-09-23 06:54:23 +0000 UTC]
You're welcome.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to BlueBlasta [2012-08-29 12:47:56 +0000 UTC]
YAY! You have no idea how stupidly excited I am that someone still gives llamas. I loved the llama badge thing. I was sad when people seemed to not think it was fun anymore.
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BlueBlasta In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-09-01 19:01:20 +0000 UTC]
I know right? The llama badge thing is amazing, it should have never been forgotten about xD
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to BlueBlasta [2012-09-03 11:19:26 +0000 UTC]
I'm so with you there! I got so excited the day they came out. I used to lurk on the llama trading page for any offer that would come up, haha.
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wRicky89 [2012-07-17 19:32:58 +0000 UTC]
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boot-cheese-3000 [2012-03-24 15:58:19 +0000 UTC]
Happy Birthday!!!!
you'll get the PG version in here without the drug and booze and butt-naked fun emoticons added here. i know how you gets down for your birthday:
cookies, cake and ice cream............
accompanied by exciting games of ping-pong, Twister, and everybody's favorite.........
PIN THE TAIL ON THE DONKEY!!!!!
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-03-27 05:10:21 +0000 UTC]
Haha, that's good because the booze isn't for 2 more years.
Guess what? No cake or ice cream, or cookies this year for me... I got picked up by my boyfriend, we napped until the afternoon, ran to the mall to get some stuff, Then I went home and got done up. Sushi for dinner, then off to Synergy for some dancing with some friends. Seeing as how I never had any cake, we ran to IHOP afterward and I got some stuffed french toast instead. I did do a more touchy-feely rumba that I wasn't used to. Ironically, with someone I danced with at the beginning of summer last year while doing a dance demo at a senior community and hadn't seen since. He was a dance teacher, though, so he was only trying to show me some new stuff. Didn't make it any less awkward.
Anyway, if you're interested, here's a picture halfway through the night: [link]
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-03-28 18:12:09 +0000 UTC]
from what it looks like you were smiles for miles so i take it you enjoyed yourself. sounds better than any birthday i had or others had, and you did the int'l thing:
you took a nap BEFORE going out to party. that's how they do it in Brazil!!!!!
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-04-02 11:44:58 +0000 UTC]
The day didn't go as smoothly as I would have liked, but it was okay. Things didn't fall in line as I had hoped, but the night was successful nonetheless. You just take the positive and ignore the negative, I suppose. I felt awesome in my dress, and had a pretty good time with friends. That's good enough.
Haha, yeah. I napped until 3:00pm that day. The boyfriend works graveyard, so I stay up and text him most of the night, I sleep for 2-4 hours, then he picks me up on his way home from work and we nap together at his house until the late afternoon or early evening, then we go do something.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-04-03 01:02:59 +0000 UTC]
yep, just how they do it in foreign countries. instead of doing that here they go to a bar to unwind. DO THAT LATER!!!! the game won't be on for a few hrs. if anything.
and i guess that's the best attitude to have in circumstances like that. i'm used to plans falling apart so it doesn't bother me, it just makes me think of the proverb "to make God laugh, tell him your plans".
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-05-19 09:47:12 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, no matter how hard you try, you can't really ever count on your plans always flawlessly working out.
(Lookie what finally got paid off! [link] )
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-05-19 17:41:04 +0000 UTC]
awwwww.......it's so adorable.......
do you wear it on your pinky?
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-05-25 10:04:07 +0000 UTC]
No, that will be on my ring finger in about a month.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-05-25 18:25:50 +0000 UTC]
i know, it just looks so tiny and cute......
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-05-26 12:05:06 +0000 UTC]
Haha, It's a size 6, so it's waaaaayyy too big for my pinkie. The picture is deceiving, though. That's Alfonso's finger in the picture. Had it been mine, it would have made it proportionate.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-05-28 23:16:11 +0000 UTC]
ok that makes sense because his fingers kinda dwarfed the ring.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-06-06 10:09:19 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, haha. It did. The ring is dainty, but it is proportionate on my finger. I'll probably add a photo when it's mine.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-06-06 17:09:35 +0000 UTC]
oh please do, and cheese it up for the camera.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-06-14 15:41:02 +0000 UTC]
As soon as it is mine, I will do that. We are about a week and a half from asking Dad for his blessing. The bag containing my ring is currently staring at me from across the room.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-06-14 16:03:49 +0000 UTC]
screaming and waiting to bust loose pon de scene.....
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-06-29 09:03:39 +0000 UTC]
Well... The talk went... Unsatisfactorily... But we got a tentative blessing. Now I wait for the proposal. It might be tomorrow, but I'm not sure. He is taking me out dancing (which we do every other week) and asked me to dress up (unusual, as I always do when going dancing), as well as mentioning inviting a friend that I know he invited to watch us get engaged.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-06-30 16:03:48 +0000 UTC]
awww he wants witnesses.......
as far as your Pops he'll get over it, he knows there are FAR WORSE choices out there for you than Fonzie Bear. i think he's being a typical father, doesn't want to give his lil' girl up let alone see you as a woman nowadays but he has to get past that. even i notice it. no need for possessiveness at this point in time. but then again i'm on the outside so all i can do is speculate.
so how was your date of dancing the night away and through your engagement party? this friend he invited, this isn't some "look dude--we're getting married. that means she's off-limits".
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-07-09 14:01:44 +0000 UTC]
Well, he didn't propose after all. It surprised me. He gave every indication that he was going to. So as of yet, I still wait. Impatiently. The person he also wants to invite to witness the event is a girl, so there is no staking claims on me. Ironically, the night I thought I was gonna get engaged ended with Alfonso telling one of my "regulars" (guys that are always at the studio and want to dance with me whenever I'm there) to back off. He was getting creepy. When he found out about my hypermobile hips, he went home to research all medical conditions that caused it, then brought the research back and offered to help me find a treatment center, and would not drop the subject. Every time I saw him, he wanted to know how my hips were. What dances I could do. If my hips had locked up yet. If I was okay to do a Latin dance. That crossed the line. He was breaking social dance etiquette anyway. Claiming me for dances ahead of time, hogging me, doing multiple dances in a row... It was getting to be a bit much... Oh, and he was probably in his 60s.
So the night ended with Alfonso telling some creeper off rather than staking his public claim on me.
My dad is definitely holding onto me. Being the only girl, the only biological child, the youngest, and the last child, he isn't ready for me to bring up flying the coop at 19. He had issues letting go of the fact that wedding plans aren't for 2 years at least. He wanted to know why we wanted to get engaged with 2 years before wedding plans. He doesn't understand the concept of engagement, I guess. At least not how I look at it.
He told us the same thing he said the night before I started dating Alfonso: "You're not ready for that. You have plenty of time ahead of you. No need to rush". I think dating for 4 years before marriage is hardly rushing it.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-07-09 14:45:43 +0000 UTC]
true that. some people don't wait 4 mos before they get married. i don't find that impulsive at all but then again that's parents fo' ya right?
with this dirty old man............doggie, i'm not EVEN going to touch that. i know i'm still a student at studying shamanism and healing but when you told me about your condition even i didn't cross that line. hell it sounded more painful than anything which made me NOT want to know anymore details. i don't know why but hearing about that just gives me the heebie-jeebies or something, just.......erg. anyways he--Fonzie Bear--HAS to make that up to you somehow. whether he was afraid or pissed or both he didn't have to make that a distraction. who knows he might be scared you know but it's not like you aren't, you're ready for that next step because you trust him and love him and that's more important than anything.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-07-29 12:57:57 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, I don't know what to do with him. He frustrates me to no end when he acts like this.
Yeah, it was a little irritating to have someone obsessing over the whole thing. It isn't painful for the most part... Until my hips lock up after a lot of dancing. THAT hurts...
It's just natural to me because I have always been this way. My hips have always been able to slip out of the socket, and it usually is painless because the tendons are loose enough to not make it painful by trying to hold it in, so all is well, and I don't need someone obsessing about it if I'm not obsessing about it.
And yes, I still wait for my ring. He is just taking his time now. I don't know if he is getting cold feet, or if he is trying to surprise me, or if he just hadn't come up with a plan yet.
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boot-cheese-3000 In reply to jenna-daydreamer93 [2012-07-30 19:25:37 +0000 UTC]
who knows with Alphonso but when he's ready you'll DEFINITELY be the 1st and that's all that matters.
and there you go bragging about your pelvis-poppin' skillz. it sounds gross to me but with the influx of perverts on here they'll have other ideas in mind when they read those words.
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jenna-daydreamer93 In reply to boot-cheese-3000 [2012-08-16 07:02:57 +0000 UTC]
Indeed that's true.
Yeah, the things they always focus on is just the hyperextention. Woohoo, this girl can bend unnaturally! I'm usually just like "Yeeeeeahh... And you don't get to take advantage of that, you perv. It's not as much fun as you think."
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